What can we learn from the Jews' actions in John 11:31 about compassion? The Setting and the Verse “Then the Jews who were with her in the house, consoling her, saw that Mary got up quickly and went out. They followed her, supposing she was going to the tomb to weep there.” (John 11:31) Observations From the Jews’ Actions • They were present with Mary in her grief—“with her in the house, consoling her.” • They noticed her sudden movement—“saw that Mary got up quickly.” • They responded immediately—“They followed her.” • They assumed the purpose was mourning—“supposing she was going to the tomb to weep there.” Key Lessons About Compassion Compassion Shows Up • True care is expressed first by physical presence (Job 2:11-13). • “Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.” (Romans 12:15) Compassion Pays Attention • The Jews watched Mary's actions closely, detecting a change in her demeanor. • Compassion involves listening with the eyes as well as the ears (Philippians 2:4). Compassion Moves Toward the Hurting • They “followed her,” choosing to leave comfort behind to share the burden. • “Bear one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2) Compassion Allows Space for Grief • They expected more weeping and were ready to accompany her into that sorrowful place. • God “comforts us in all our tribulation, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble.” (2 Corinthians 1:3-4) Compassion Acts Without Demanding Explanation • The Jews did not interrogate Mary; they simply went with her. • “Let us not love with words and speech, but with actions and in truth.” (1 John 3:18) Practical Takeaways for Today • Be willing to enter another’s sorrow without waiting for an invitation. • Watch for non-verbal cues; compassion is alert. • Offer presence more than prescriptions; silence can minister deeply. • Let your actions echo your concern—journey with the hurting, even when the path leads to “tombs.” |
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