What can we learn about seeking wise counsel from 2 Chronicles 10:9? Setting the Scene: Rehoboam’s Crossroads 2 Chronicles 10:9: “He asked them, ‘What advice do you give on how we should answer this people who say to me, “Lighten the yoke your father put on us”?’” Rehoboam, Solomon’s son, stands before a united kingdom begging for relief. His first move? Ask for advice. Two Groups, Two Directions • Elders who had served Solomon: experience, proven loyalty, covenant perspective • Young men who grew up with Rehoboam: ambition, self-interest, untested ideas What happened next (vv. 13–14) shows the stakes. Rehoboam embraced the harsher counsel and split the kingdom. Principles for Seeking Counsel • Look for godly experience — Proverbs 11:14: “For lack of guidance, a people fall, but with many counselors there is deliverance.” — Job 12:12: “Wisdom is found with the elderly, and understanding comes with long life.” • Beware echo chambers — Rehoboam’s peers told him what he wanted to hear, not what he needed to hear. • Weigh motives — James 3:17: “But the wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peace-loving, gentle…” • Submit to truth even when it feels hard — Proverbs 15:22: “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” Consequences of Ignoring Sound Advice • National division (Israel vs. Judah) • Loss of blessing foretold in Deuteronomy 17:18-20 when the king clings to pride • Generational fallout—future kings inherit discord Marks of Wise Counsel Today 1. Rooted in Scripture, not opinion (Psalm 119:105) 2. Tested by time and fruit (Matthew 7:17-18) 3. Courageous enough to confront (Galatians 2:11-14) 4. Humble and prayerful (Philippians 2:3-4) Practical Steps for Us • Pray before choosing advisers—ask God to direct you to the right voices. • Seek diversity of age and background, united by faithfulness to God’s Word. • Write down opposing viewpoints; evaluate which align with Scripture. • Act promptly once God’s wisdom is clear; delayed obedience is disobedience. Takeaway Rehoboam teaches that the counsel we heed charts the course we travel. Choose advisers who revere the Lord, and you’ll steer clear of needless heartache. |
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