How does Matthew 25:12 emphasize the importance of a personal relationship with Christ? The Scene Behind the Words Matthew 25:12: “But he replied, ‘Truly I tell you, I do not know you.’” • Spoken by the Bridegroom to the five foolish virgins who arrived too late for the wedding banquet • Occurs in Jesus’ Olivet Discourse, where He urges watchfulness for His return (Matthew 24–25) • Striking contrast: preparedness expressed in oil-filled lamps versus empty lamps—and an unopened door Why “I Do Not Know You” Hits Home • “Know” (Greek = ginōskō) carries personal, relational weight—far more than casual recognition • The Bridegroom’s refusal signals not ignorance of their identity but absence of intimate covenant fellowship • The closed door shows that status, association, or past activity cannot substitute for a present relationship Personal Relationship Highlighted by the Parable • All ten virgins were invited and expected, yet only those ready entered (vv. 1–10) • The decisive factor: ongoing readiness rooted in knowing—and being known by—the Bridegroom • Spiritual preparedness is relational, not merely ritual Reinforcing Scriptures • John 10:14: “I am the good shepherd. I know My own and My own know Me.” • John 17:3: “Now this is eternal life: that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom You have sent.” • Luke 13:25–27: A similar warning—“I do not know where you are from. Away from Me, all you evildoers!” • 2 Timothy 2:19: “The Lord knows those who are His.” • Revelation 3:20: “Behold, I stand at the door and knock… if anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him.” Key Takeaways for Today • Relationship, not mere religious acquaintance, marks true discipleship • Spiritual readiness involves daily fellowship—hearing, obeying, and loving Christ • A personal bond with Jesus cannot be borrowed, delayed, or delegated • When He returns, the decisive question is not “Did you attend?” but “Do I know you, and do you know Me?” Living It Out • Cultivate intimacy through Scripture—His voice shapes relationship (Psalm 119:105) • Foster ongoing conversation in prayer and obedience—relationship grows in two-way interaction (John 14:23) • Remain watchful, expecting His return—love stays alert and prepared (1 Thessalonians 5:6) |