Obadiah 1:10: Family violence effects?
How does Obadiah 1:10 illustrate the consequences of violence against family?

Setting the Scene

• Obadiah speaks to Edom, the nation descended from Esau, Jacob’s twin.

• The brothers’ quarrel (Genesis 25:29-34; 27:41) eventually became national hostility.

• The prophet treats that hostility as family violence—bloodshed inside God’s covenant family line.


Reading the Verse

Obadiah 1:10

“Because of the violence against your brother Jacob, shame will cover you, and you will be cut off forever.”


Who Are “Brother Jacob” and “Edom”?

• Jacob = Israel, the covenant people.

• Esau’s line (Edom) was expected to honor that family bond (Deuteronomy 23:7).

• God views assaults on kin as personal offenses against His covenant purposes (Genesis 12:3).


What Edom Actually Did

• Aided invading armies against Jerusalem (Psalm 137:7).

• Blocked refugees (Obadiah 1:14).

• Looted God’s people (Obadiah 1:13).

• Stood by “on the day of your brother” instead of helping (Obadiah 1:11-12).


Immediate Consequences Pronounced

1. Shame: inner disgrace that cannot be hidden—public humiliation before other nations.

2. Cut off forever: national extinction; Edom disappeared from the map by the first century A.D.

– Compare Malachi 1:3-4: “They may build, but I will demolish.”

3. Loss of covenant blessing: Genesis 27:29 foretold that whoever cursed Jacob would be cursed.


Biblical Pattern of Family Violence and Its Fallout

• Cain and Abel—curse on the ground and restless wandering (Genesis 4:10-12).

• Joseph’s brothers—years of famine-driven fear and eventual repentance (Genesis 42-45).

• Absalom’s revolt—sword never departed from David’s house (2 Samuel 12:10).


Why God Judges Family Violence So Severely

• Violates the foundational command to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Leviticus 19:18).

• Tears at the covenant fabric; God intends families to display His faithful love (Malachi 2:15).

• Sheds innocent blood, which the LORD hates (Proverbs 6:16-19).


Lessons for Today’s Families

• Indifference toward family suffering is not neutral; God equates apathy with violence.

• Hidden resentment can grow into generational strife if not surrendered to God.

• Protecting, reconciling, and blessing relatives invites divine favor (Psalm 133:1-3).

• Christ reconciles hostile relatives, creating “one new man” (Ephesians 2:14-16).


Hope Beyond Edom’s Tragedy

• Edom’s doom warns, but Christ opens a better way: “Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32).

• Choosing reconciliation over retaliation breaks the cycle and aligns us with God’s stated blessing.

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