How does Obadiah 1:10 illustrate the consequences of violence against family? Setting the Scene • Obadiah speaks to Edom, the nation descended from Esau, Jacob’s twin. • The brothers’ quarrel (Genesis 25:29-34; 27:41) eventually became national hostility. • The prophet treats that hostility as family violence—bloodshed inside God’s covenant family line. Reading the Verse “Because of the violence against your brother Jacob, shame will cover you, and you will be cut off forever.” Who Are “Brother Jacob” and “Edom”? • Jacob = Israel, the covenant people. • Esau’s line (Edom) was expected to honor that family bond (Deuteronomy 23:7). • God views assaults on kin as personal offenses against His covenant purposes (Genesis 12:3). What Edom Actually Did • Aided invading armies against Jerusalem (Psalm 137:7). • Blocked refugees (Obadiah 1:14). • Looted God’s people (Obadiah 1:13). • Stood by “on the day of your brother” instead of helping (Obadiah 1:11-12). Immediate Consequences Pronounced 1. Shame: inner disgrace that cannot be hidden—public humiliation before other nations. 2. Cut off forever: national extinction; Edom disappeared from the map by the first century A.D. – Compare Malachi 1:3-4: “They may build, but I will demolish.” 3. Loss of covenant blessing: Genesis 27:29 foretold that whoever cursed Jacob would be cursed. Biblical Pattern of Family Violence and Its Fallout • Cain and Abel—curse on the ground and restless wandering (Genesis 4:10-12). • Joseph’s brothers—years of famine-driven fear and eventual repentance (Genesis 42-45). • Absalom’s revolt—sword never departed from David’s house (2 Samuel 12:10). Why God Judges Family Violence So Severely • Violates the foundational command to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Leviticus 19:18). • Tears at the covenant fabric; God intends families to display His faithful love (Malachi 2:15). • Sheds innocent blood, which the LORD hates (Proverbs 6:16-19). Lessons for Today’s Families • Indifference toward family suffering is not neutral; God equates apathy with violence. • Hidden resentment can grow into generational strife if not surrendered to God. • Protecting, reconciling, and blessing relatives invites divine favor (Psalm 133:1-3). • Christ reconciles hostile relatives, creating “one new man” (Ephesians 2:14-16). Hope Beyond Edom’s Tragedy • Edom’s doom warns, but Christ opens a better way: “Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32). • Choosing reconciliation over retaliation breaks the cycle and aligns us with God’s stated blessing. |