How can we ensure our hearts are not "hardened" as in Jeremiah 5:3? The Setting: Jeremiah 5:3 “O LORD, do Your eyes not look for faithfulness? You struck them, but they felt no pain. You consumed them, but they refused to accept correction. They made their faces harder than stone; they refused to repent.” What a Hardened Heart Looks Like • Insensitive to God’s correction • Unmoved by discipline or consequences • Resistant to repentance, even when truth is clear • Characterized by pride—“faces harder than stone” Roots That Produce Hardness • Persistent, unconfessed sin (Psalm 66:18) • Pride and self-reliance (Proverbs 16:18) • Neglect of God’s Word (Amos 8:11–12) • Disregard for the Holy Spirit’s prompting (Acts 7:51) Biblical Safeguards for a Tender Heart • Stay in Scripture daily – “Is not My word like fire… and like a hammer that smashes a rock?” (Jeremiah 23:29) • Embrace swift repentance – “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive…” (1 John 1:9) • Welcome God’s discipline – “Whom the Lord loves He disciplines.” (Hebrews 12:6) • Practice continual humility – “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:6) • Cultivate a thankful memory of God’s works – “Forget not all His benefits.” (Psalm 103:2) • Guard your heart diligently – “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” (Proverbs 4:23, NIV) • Maintain close fellowship with believers – “Encourage one another daily… so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.” (Hebrews 3:13) • Yield to the Spirit in obedience – “Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.” (Galatians 5:16) Cautionary Examples • Pharaoh—repeated refusal to heed God’s word (Exodus 7–12) • Wilderness generation—“Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your hearts.” (Psalm 95:7-8) • Religious leaders who rejected Jesus’ signs (Mark 3:5) God’s Promise for Soft Hearts “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will remove your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” (Ezekiel 36:26) Daily Practices to Keep the Heart Soft • Morning time in the Word and worship • Ongoing confession as the Spirit convicts • Regular thanksgiving for specific mercies • Actively serving others in love (Galatians 5:13) • Weekly fellowship, teaching, and accountability A heart that remains teachable, humble, and quick to repent will stay tender toward God—and the warning of Jeremiah 5:3 will never describe us. |