What does Proverbs 27:9 teach about the value of heartfelt counsel? Verse in Focus “Oil and incense bring joy to the heart, and the sweetness of a friend is counsel to the soul.” (Proverbs 27:9) Word Picture Explained • Oil and incense – in ancient Israel, these costly fragrances refreshed body and home, symbolizing delight and celebration. • Sweetness of a friend – genuine friendship seasoned with love and loyalty. • Counsel to the soul – advice that penetrates deeper than emotions, guiding thoughts, choices, and spiritual wellbeing. Just as perfumed oil lifts the senses, heartfelt counsel lifts the spirit. Why God Values Heartfelt Counsel • It aligns with the created design for community (Genesis 2:18). • Wisdom is multiplied when shared (Proverbs 11:14). • It sharpens character (Proverbs 27:17). • It protects from self-deception (Jeremiah 17:9; Hebrews 3:13). • It models Christ’s body working together (1 Corinthians 12:21-26). What Makes Counsel “Sweet” 1. Rooted in Scripture – Psalm 19:7-10; Colossians 3:16. 2. Spoken in love – Ephesians 4:15, 29. 3. Marked by humility – James 3:17. 4. Timely and discerning – Proverbs 25:11. 5. Aimed at restoration, not criticism – Galatians 6:1. How to Give Sweet Counsel • Pray before speaking (James 1:5). • Listen fully; understand feelings and facts (Proverbs 18:13). • Use gentle, truthful words (Proverbs 15:1). • Share Scripture appropriately, not mechanically (2 Timothy 3:16-17). • Offer practical steps, then walk with the friend (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10). Receiving Counsel with Gratitude • Invite it: “Let a righteous man strike me—it is kindness” (Psalm 141:5). • Test it by the Word (Acts 17:11). • Respond with teachability (Proverbs 9:8-9). • Act on what aligns with truth (James 1:22-25). • Express thanks, strengthening the friendship (Philippians 1:3-5). Key Takeaways to Live Out • Heartfelt counsel is a God-given fragrance for the soul; cherish and seek it. • Friendship becomes sweetest when it guides one another toward righteous decisions. • Offering and receiving counsel are twin acts of love that reflect Christ’s care for His people. |
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