Which other Proverbs verses emphasize the importance of moderation in relationships? Wisdom Snapshot from Proverbs 25:17 “Seldom set foot in your neighbor’s house, lest he grow weary of you and hate you.” Companion Proverbs on Relational Moderation • Proverbs 25:16 – “If you find honey, eat just what you need, lest you have too much and vomit it up.” – Even good things wear thin when over-indulged; relationships are no exception. • Proverbs 27:14 – “If one blesses his neighbor with a loud voice early in the morning, it will be counted to him as a curse.” – Enthusiasm without tact can turn friendly words into irritation. • Proverbs 17:9 – “Whoever conceals an offense promotes love, but he who brings it up separates friends.” – Choose when to speak and when to let minor faults go. • Proverbs 17:14 – “To start a quarrel is to release a flood; so abandon the dispute before it breaks out.” – Know when to stop before emotions sweep everyone away. • Proverbs 18:24 – “A man of many companions may be ruined, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” – Depth over breadth: invest wisely rather than scattering yourself thin. • Proverbs 26:17 – “Like one who seizes a dog by the ears is a passerby who meddles in a quarrel not his own.” – Respect boundaries; avoid inserting yourself where you do not belong. • Proverbs 10:19 – “When words are many, sin is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise.” – Silence can preserve harmony better than a flood of opinions. • Proverbs 11:13 – “A gossip reveals a secret, but a trustworthy spirit keeps a matter concealed.” – Guarding confidences maintains trust; oversharing destroys it. Practical Takeaways • Limit frequency—both visits and messages—so friends look forward to your company. • Gauge timing and tone; a well-placed word is better than a noisy compliment. • Cover small offenses; bring up only what truly needs addressing. • Step back from brewing conflict before it bursts. • Focus energy on a few faithful relationships rather than chasing endless connections. • Stay out of disputes that are none of your business. • Speak less, listen more, and never pass along secrets. Moderation preserves goodwill, protects trust, and lets genuine affection flourish—just as the Lord designed. |
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