Rehoboam's choice & Deut. marriage laws?
How does Rehoboam's decision in 2 Chronicles 11:20 connect to Deuteronomy's marriage laws?

Setting the Scene

“After her, he married Maacah daughter of Absalom, and she bore him Abijah, Attai, Ziza, and Shelomith.” (2 Chronicles 11:20)


God’s Standard for Royal Marriages

Deuteronomy 17:17 warns Israel’s future kings:

• “He must not take many wives for himself, lest his heart be led astray.”


Safeguards for Children in a Polygamous Home

Deuteronomy 21:15-17 addresses a man with two wives:

• The firstborn’s inheritance may not be transferred to the son of the “loved” wife.

• Justice, not favoritism, must guide succession.


How Rehoboam Measures Up

2 Chronicles 11:21 reports that Rehoboam had “eighteen wives and sixty concubines.” His choice to add Maacah is one more step in multiplying wives—directly contradicting Deuteronomy 17:17.

2 Chronicles 11:22 shows him elevating Abijah (Maacah’s son) over older sons. That preference mirrors the very scenario Deuteronomy 21:15-17 forbids—overriding normal firstborn rights for the child of the favored wife.


Consequences Traced in Scripture

• Rehoboam’s divided affections foreshadow Judah’s ongoing instability (2 Chronicles 12:1-4).

• Later, Abijah’s short reign (2 Chronicles 13) underlines that human favoritism cannot secure lasting blessing; only obedience does (1 Samuel 15:22).


Lessons to Carry Forward

• God’s Word sets clear, protective boundaries—even for kings. Ignoring them invites turmoil.

• Accumulating blessings (wives, influence, possessions) is not sinful in itself; multiplying them beyond God’s limits is.

• Favoritism in family leadership sows strife; God upholds equity and faithfulness.

Rehoboam’s marriage to Maacah illustrates how quickly royal choices can drift from God’s revealed will in Deuteronomy—and how those choices ripple into the life of a nation.

What can we learn about family dynamics from 2 Chronicles 11:20?
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