Rehoboam's choice vs. Solomon's wisdom?
How does Rehoboam's decision compare to Solomon's wisdom in Proverbs?

Setting the Scene: Rehoboam at the Turning Point

2 Chronicles 10:3: “So they sent for him, and Jeroboam and all Israel came and spoke to Rehoboam.”

• The northern tribes ask Rehoboam to lighten Solomon’s heavy labor and tax load (vv. 4–5).

• Rehoboam consults two groups: the elders who had served Solomon, and the young men who grew up with him (vv. 6–11).

• He rejects the elders’ counsel of kindness and chooses the harsh advice of his peers (vv. 12–15).


Solomon’s Counsel in Proverbs: What the Father Taught the Son

Many of the Proverbs were penned by Solomon—Rehoboam’s own father—and intended for a son just like him (Proverbs 1:8; 4:1–4). Key themes Rehoboam would have known:

• Seek wisdom and understanding above riches (Proverbs 4:5–7).

• Listen to counsel and accept instruction (Proverbs 19:20).

• Rule with righteousness and justice, not oppression (Proverbs 16:12; 29:14).

• Use gentle words to turn away wrath (Proverbs 15:1).


Point-by-Point Contrast: Solomon’s Wisdom vs. Rehoboam’s Choice

" Solomon’s Wisdom in Proverbs " Rehoboam’s Decision in 2 Chronicles 10 "

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" “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.” (Proverbs 11:14) " Listened to many counselors, yet ignored the experienced ones, favoring peers. "

" “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1) " Promised harsher labor: “My little finger is thicker than my father’s waist.” (v. 10) "

" “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” (Proverbs 16:18) " Spoke pridefully of power, precipitating the kingdom’s split (v. 16). "

" “Through patience a ruler can be persuaded.” (Proverbs 25:15) " Showed impatience; gave an answer on the third day without genuine consideration (v. 12). "

" “Better a poor but wise youth than an old but foolish king who no longer knows how to take warning.” (Ecclesiastes 4:13) " Became the “foolish king” who refused warning, despite his youth. "


Proverbs Rehoboam Ignored (Selected Verses)

Proverbs 3:5–6 — Trust in the LORD, not your own understanding.

Proverbs 15:22 — “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.”

Proverbs 20:18 — “Set plans by consultation, and wage war with sound guidance.”

Proverbs 24:6 — “Surely you need guidance to wage war, and victory is won through many advisers.”

Proverbs 28:13 — Concealing sin brings no prosperity; confessing and renouncing brings mercy. (His harshness masked insecurity and sin.)


Consequences: The Fruit of Ignoring Wisdom

• Immediate: Ten tribes rebel, crowning Jeroboam; only Judah and Benjamin remain (2 Chron 10:16–19).

• Long-term: Persistent division, civil war, and eventual exile for both kingdoms.

• Spiritual: Rehoboam’s hardness opposed the covenant ideal of shepherd-leadership (Ezekiel 34:2–4).


Takeaway for Today

• Wisdom is not merely abstract; it was available to Rehoboam in written form—and is available to us now.

• Proximity to truth (growing up under Solomon) does not guarantee obedience; humility and submission are required.

• Leadership decisions ripple through families, churches, and nations; the fear of the LORD remains the beginning of wisdom (Proverbs 1:7).

What can we learn about seeking counsel from Rehoboam's actions in this chapter?
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