How should Christians respond to being wronged, based on Judges 11:7? Setting the Scene - Judges 11 opens with Jephthah, a mighty warrior, driven out by his half-brothers because he was the son of a prostitute (Judges 11:1–3). - Years later, when Ammon attacks Israel, the elders of Gilead beg Jephthah to return and lead them (Judges 11:4–6). - Judges 11:7 captures Jephthah’s first words to the elders: “Jephthah replied, ‘Did you not hate me and drive me from my father’s house? Why then are you coming to me now, when you are in distress?’ ” What Jephthah Felt - Personal rejection: “Did you not hate me…?” - Forced exile: “…and drive me from my father’s house?” - Suspicion of motives: “Why then are you coming to me now…?” - These emotions are familiar to anyone who has been wronged—hurt, injustice, and doubt. Jephthah’s Response 1. He voices the wrong. Jephthah names the offense without bitterness. 2. He listens to their appeal (Judges 11:8–10). 3. He seeks God’s affirmation before acting (Judges 11:11). 4. He chooses to serve, leading Israel to victory (Judges 11:32–33). Principles for Christians Today - Acknowledge the wrong openly, yet respectfully. - Test motives and seek clarity, but stay open to reconciliation. - Submit decisions to God before taking action. - Be willing to serve those who once hurt you, reflecting Christ’s grace. Scriptural Echoes - Matthew 5:44—“But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” - Romans 12:17-18—“Do not repay anyone evil for evil…If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” - 1 Peter 2:23—Christ “did not retaliate; when He suffered, He threatened no revenge, but entrusted Himself to Him who judges justly.” Practical Steps When Wronged - Reflect: Bring the hurt to God in honest prayer, like Jephthah did at Mizpah (Judges 11:11). - Speak truth: Address the offense calmly, naming it without slander. - Seek guidance: Consult Scripture and mature believers before deciding next steps. - Choose grace: Extend forgiveness even if trust must be rebuilt gradually (Ephesians 4:32). - Serve when called: If God opens a door to bless those who hurt you, walk through it in His strength. Final Encouragement Being wronged never feels fair, yet Scripture calls us higher. Like Jephthah, we can confront the past, rely on God’s guidance, and become instruments of deliverance—even for those who once rejected us. |
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