How can we seek God's wisdom in relationships, as seen in Judges 16:4? “Some time later, Samson fell in love with a woman in the Valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah.” What We See in Samson’s Choice • Emotional attraction led while spiritual discernment lagged. • No mention of seeking the Lord before committing to Delilah. • An unequally yoked relationship (cf. 2 Corinthians 6:14) set the stage for compromise. Why God’s Wisdom Matters in Every Relationship • Protects us from hidden snares (Proverbs 2:11-12). • Aligns our hearts with God’s purposes rather than fleeting desires (Proverbs 4:23). • Produces relationships that build, not break, our witness (Matthew 5:16). How to Seek God’s Wisdom • Prayerful Dependence – “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God” (James 1:5). – Invite the Spirit to shine light on motives, timing, and character. • Scriptural Anchoring – Daily intake of the Word (Psalm 119:105) trains the heart to recognize godly qualities. – Specific relational guidance: ▫ Choose companions who fear the Lord (Psalm 119:63). ▫ Walk with the wise to grow wise (Proverbs 13:20). ▫ Flee sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). • Godly Counsel – “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed” (Proverbs 15:22). – Seek input from mature believers who know Scripture and know you. • Spirit-Led Discernment – “Since we live by the Spirit, let us walk in step with the Spirit” (Galatians 5:25). – Pay attention to inner checks when peace is absent (Colossians 3:15). Practical Steps for Today 1. List current or potential relationships; pray over each name, asking the Lord for clarity. 2. Compare what you observe with biblical standards—character, faith, purpose. 3. Invite trusted believers to speak candidly into your decisions. 4. Commit to obedience, even if feelings pull a different direction. Lessons from Samson • Attraction without discernment can become bondage. • Ignoring God’s counsel leads to spiritual vulnerability. • God restores repentant hearts, but wisdom spares unnecessary heartache. Key Takeaways • Start with God before you start with anyone else. • Measure every relationship by Scripture, not emotion alone. • Walk in continual dependence on the Spirit, and you will walk in freedom and peace. |
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