How can we express Christian love and unity in our church community? The Heart of Paul’s Command “Greet one another with a holy kiss.” (2 Corinthians 13:12) • Paul closes his letter with a warm, tangible directive, showing that love in Christ is never abstract. • “Holy” safeguards the greeting, keeping it pure and God-honoring. • The command underscores that every believer—regardless of background—is family. Why This Matters for Today • A church marked by genuine affection testifies that the gospel has broken down dividing walls (Ephesians 2:14). • Visible, respectful warmth reassures newcomers and longtime members alike that they belong. • Consistent love authenticates our witness: “By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you love one another.” (John 13:35) Practical Ways to Greet in Holiness • Offer a sincere handshake or culturally appropriate hug. • Make eye contact, smile, and learn names quickly. • Include everyone—young, old, single, married, visitors, longtime members. • Speak words of blessing: “So glad you’re here,” “God’s peace be with you,” echoing Ruth 2:4. • Follow up after services with thoughtful texts, calls, or visits. Expressions Beyond the Sanctuary • Share meals (Acts 2:46): hospitality opens hearts. • Serve together (Galatians 5:13): unity deepens when we shoulder tasks side by side. • Rejoice and weep together (Romans 12:15): empathy cements fellowship. • Give materially when needs arise (1 John 3:17): love costs, and that cost proclaims Christ’s sacrifice. Guarding the “Holy” in Holy Affection • Maintain propriety—affection must never drift into impropriety (1 Timothy 5:2). • Seek consent; never presume physical contact. • Protect the vulnerable; ensure greetings happen in safe, visible settings. • Redirect any romantic or flirtatious impulse toward prayerful respect. Linked Scriptures That Reinforce Unity • Romans 12:10 – “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Outdo yourselves in honoring one another.” • Colossians 3:14 – “And over all these virtues put on love, which is the bond of perfect unity.” • 1 Peter 5:14 – “Greet one another with a kiss of love. Peace to all of you who are in Christ.” • Psalm 133:1 – “How good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in harmony!” Common Barriers to Watch For • Gossip that poisons trust (Proverbs 16:28). • Cliques that exclude (James 2:1-4). • Unresolved offenses (Matthew 18:15). • Pride that resists humble service (Philippians 2:3). Keeping the Flow of Love Alive • Regularly study Scripture together; truth fuels affection. • Prioritize corporate prayer; shared dependence knits hearts. • Celebrate the Lord’s Supper frequently; one table, one Savior, one body. • Encourage testimonies; hearing God’s work in others sparks praise and solidarity. • Persist in meeting together (Hebrews 10:24-25); distance dulls love, proximity sharpens it. Live the greeting. Warm, holy affection is not a cultural relic but a timeless command that, when practiced today, displays the living reality of Christ among His people. |
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