What steps can you take to resolve conflicts according to Matthew 5:24? Setting the scene in Matthew 5:23-24 “Therefore if you are presenting your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.” (Matthew 5:23-24) Five steps Jesus gives • Remember the issue – be alert when the Spirit reminds you someone “has something against you.” • Leave your gift – pause whatever ministry, service, or worship you are engaged in. • Go – take the first step in person whenever possible, not waiting for the other party. • Be reconciled – pursue genuine restoration, not a quick apology that avoids the heart matter. • Return and worship – come back to the altar with a clear conscience, ready to honor God. Practical ways to “go and be reconciled” • Examine your own heart (Psalm 139:23-24) and confess any sin you contributed. • Approach quickly (Ephesians 4:26-27) before bitterness has time to take root. • Speak truth in love (Ephesians 4:15); avoid blame-shifting and harsh words (Proverbs 15:1). • Listen more than you talk (James 1:19). • Extend forgiveness as Christ forgave you (Colossians 3:13). • Seek help from a mature believer or leader if the conversation stalls (Matthew 18:16). • Seal the reconciliation with tangible kindness (Romans 12:20-21). Why unresolved conflict hinders worship • It clouds fellowship with God (Psalm 66:18). • It grieves the Spirit who unites believers (Ephesians 4:30-32). • It damages witness before a watching world (John 13:34-35). • It robs personal joy and peace (Philippians 4:6-7). Supporting Scriptures • Romans 12:18 – “If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone.” • Mark 11:25 – “When you stand to pray, forgive anything you may have against anyone.” • James 5:16 – “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” • Proverbs 19:11 – “A person’s insight gives him patience, and it is to his glory to overlook an offense.” |
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