Traits of the wayward woman in Proverbs?
What characteristics of the "wayward woman" are highlighted in Proverbs 23:28?

Verse Focus

“Indeed, she lies in wait like a robber and increases the unfaithful among men.” (Proverbs 23:28)


Key Characteristics Unpacked

• Predatory: “lies in wait like a robber” — she studies, stalks, and surprises her targets, not by accident but with deliberate intent.

• Deceptive: the robber imagery signals stealth; her presence is masked until damage is certain.

• Violent to the soul: a brigand uses force to strip victims; so she strips honor, purity, and peace.

• Multiplying ruin: “increases the unfaithful among men” — contact with her spreads spiritual treachery, multiplying broken covenants (Malachi 2:14).

• Agent of betrayal: unfaithfulness here echoes marital infidelity against both spouse and God (Exodus 20:14).

• Contagious influence: her reach extends beyond one man, enlarging a community of traitors (Proverbs 22:14).


The Broader Biblical Witness

Proverbs 2:16-19 — her path “sinks down to death.”

Proverbs 5:3-6 — “her feet go down to Sheol.”

Proverbs 6:24-26 — she hunts “the precious life.”

Proverbs 7:22-27 — victims are “like an ox going to the slaughter.”

1 Corinthians 6:18 — sexual sin uniquely wounds “his own body.”


Guarding Our Hearts

• Recognize the ambush: temptation often appears attractive but hides fatal hooks (James 1:14-15).

• Keep covenant loyalty: cling to God’s commands “as the apple of your eye” (Proverbs 7:2).

• Pursue wisdom’s companionship: “Say to wisdom, ‘You are my sister’” (Proverbs 7:4).

• Flee youthful passions: “Run from sexual immorality” (1 Corinthians 6:18).

• Cultivate accountability: faithful community disrupts secrecy (Hebrews 3:13).


Takeaways

The wayward woman is painted as an ambushing thief who robs purity and multiplies betrayal. Scripture’s remedy is alert wisdom, covenant faithfulness, and decisive flight from her snare, guarding both heart and community from the spread of unfaithfulness.

How does Proverbs 23:28 warn against the dangers of immoral relationships?
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