How can we welcome righteous correction as described in Psalm 141:5? Setting the Scene—Psalm 141:5 “Let a righteous man strike me—it is kindness; let him rebuke me—it is oil for my head; let me not refuse it. My prayer is ever against the deeds of the wicked.” Why Godly Correction Matters • Scripture calls correction a gift, not a threat. • It protects us from drifting into the “deeds of the wicked.” • It keeps our hearts soft and teachable before the Lord. See Proverbs 12:1; 27:5-6. Cultivating the Right Attitude • Humility—recognize we all have blind spots (Proverbs 9:8-9). • Openness—pray in advance that God will send wise voices. • Gratitude—view correction as “oil for my head,” a refreshment, not an annoyance. Choosing Voices Worth Hearing Look for: • Proven righteousness—people who live what they say. • Love for you—friends who wound “faithfully” (Proverbs 27:6). • Alignment with Scripture—advice grounded in God’s Word. How to Receive a Rebuke 1. Listen fully: “quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19-20). 2. Test it with the Bible: does the rebuke match God’s commands? 3. Acknowledge truth promptly—say “You’re right” where Scripture agrees. 4. Repent in action, not just words—change direction. 5. Thank the person—affirm their courage to speak. Guarding Against Wrong Reactions • Don’t get defensive—pride shuts the door to growth. • Don’t attack the messenger—focus on the message. • Don’t delay obedience—partial delay often becomes full disobedience. Staying Teachable Long-Term • Invite feedback regularly; ask trusted believers to speak in. • Memorize verses on discipline (Hebrews 12:11; Proverbs 15:31-32). • Keep short accounts with God—daily confession keeps your heart soft. • Walk in community—join a small group where mutual correction is normal (Galatians 6:1). Blessings That Follow Welcomed Correction • Deeper wisdom and maturity (Proverbs 9:9). • Peaceable fruit of righteousness (Hebrews 12:11). • Protection from sin’s hardening effects. • Stronger relationships built on honesty and trust. |
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