What is the meaning of Proverbs 18:13? He who answers a matter • The proverb opens by picturing someone eager to speak, give a verdict, or offer counsel. • Scripture consistently praises a measured tongue and thoughtful speech (Proverbs 15:28; James 1:19). • “Answering” implies taking a position of authority; doing so carries weight and calls for responsibility (Proverbs 25:11–12). before he hears it • The real problem is not the response itself but its timing—speaking without first gathering the facts. • God’s Word insists on thorough hearing before judgment (Deuteronomy 13:14; John 7:51). • Listening protects all parties from misunderstanding, false witness, and hasty conflict (Proverbs 18:17; 25:8–9). —this is folly • The Bible labels impatience with facts as “folly,” a moral rather than merely intellectual failure (Proverbs 14:29; 26:12). • Folly here is self-inflicted; the person exposes his own lack of wisdom by rushing ahead (Ecclesiastes 10:14). • A wise heart pauses to consider, weigh, and verify (Proverbs 19:2; 21:5). and disgrace to him • Beyond foolishness, the outcome is “disgrace”—public shame and loss of credibility (Proverbs 13:18). • Hasty words often have to be retracted, leading to embarrassment (Luke 14:8–9). • Reputations are built or broken by how we handle information; disciplined listening preserves honor (Proverbs 22:1; James 3:13). summary Proverbs 18:13 warns that speaking without first listening is both foolish and shameful. God’s design is that His people be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. Careful listening honors truth, protects relationships, and upholds personal integrity, while impulsive speech invites dishonor and exposes folly. |
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