What does "sold us" in Genesis 31:15 reveal about Laban's character? Setting the Verse in Context “Does he not regard us as foreigners? For he has sold us and has certainly spent our bridal price as well.” (Genesis 31:15) Rachel and Leah are speaking to Jacob after he explains God’s call to leave Paddan-aram. In their culture, a bride-price was paid by the groom and was to be set aside for the bride’s welfare (cf. Genesis 24:53). Laban, however, pocketed it for himself. Understanding the Phrase “Sold Us” • The Hebrew verb carries the idea of disposing of something for personal gain. • By using “sold,” the sisters highlight that their father treated them as merchandise, not beloved daughters. • The statement implies both the initial transaction (their marriages) and the ongoing misuse of funds meant for them. What “Sold Us” Reveals about Laban’s Character • Greedy – He valued money above family, seizing what rightfully belonged to his daughters (Genesis 31:7). • Dishonest – Earlier he swapped Leah for Rachel (Genesis 29:23-25); here he withholds their dowry. • Exploitative – Twelve unpaid years of Jacob’s labor (Genesis 31:41) show a pattern of taking advantage. • Hard-hearted – He ignores covenantal love and parental responsibility, treating his children as strangers. • Shortsighted – By prioritizing immediate gain, he forfeits lasting relationship and blessing (Proverbs 11:28). • Materialistic – Echoes the warning: “For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil” (1 Timothy 6:10). Supporting Scriptures • Genesis 29:18-28 – Laban bargains with Jacob for seven years, then deceives him. • Genesis 31:7 – “Your father has cheated me and changed my wages ten times.” • Proverbs 11:1 – “Dishonest scales are an abomination to the LORD.” • Micah 2:1-2 – Indicts those who “seize fields and houses” for selfish gain. • 1 Timothy 6:10 – Greed’s corrupting power illustrated in Laban’s life. Lessons for Today • Guard your heart against valuing possessions over people. • Honor family commitments; God sees exploitation, even within households. • Trust that God vindicates the wronged, just as He protected Jacob, Rachel, and Leah. |
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