What excuses hinder our faith today?
What excuses do we make that hinder our commitment to God's kingdom today?

The Scene in Luke 14:18

“ ‘They all alike began to make excuses. The first one said, “I have bought a field and I must go see it. Please excuse me.” ’ ” (Luke 14:18)

Jesus is telling a parable about a great banquet—an image of God’s kingdom invitation. The RSVPs are out, the feast is ready, yet invitees walk away with flimsy reasons. Nothing has changed; we still reach for rational-sounding exits when wholehearted commitment feels costly.


Three Classic Excuses in the Parable

1. Property: “I bought a field.”

• Possessions, investments, projects needing attention.

2. Livelihood: “I bought five yoke of oxen.” (v. 19)

• Career, business expansion, tools of trade.

3. Family Ties: “I just got married.” (v. 20)

• Relationships and life milestones that become spiritual stall points.


Modern Translations of These Excuses

• “I’d love to serve, but my schedule is slammed with work.”

• “Once I’m financially secure, I’ll give more time to ministry.”

• “Family weekends are sacred; church can wait.”

• “School sports dominate Sundays right now.”

• “I need ‘me-time’—reading my Bible can happen later.”

• “After retirement I’ll go on mission trips.”

Each sounds reasonable—yet each quietly places something or someone above the King who invites.


Excuses Expose Priorities

Luke 12:34: “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

Matthew 6:24: “You cannot serve both God and money.”

Luke 9:59-62: would-be disciples delay for funerals and farewells—Jesus answers, “No one who looks back is fit for the kingdom.”

Excuses reveal competing loves; they are spiritual litmus tests.


Why They Hurt Us

• We lose the joy of immediate fellowship (Psalm 16:11).

• We model half-heartedness to children and peers (Deuteronomy 6:6-7).

• Delays harden into habits, making future obedience tougher (Hebrews 3:13).

• The kingdom invitation moves on to others who will say yes (Luke 14:21-24).


Scripture’s Call to Responsive Obedience

Matthew 6:33: “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.”

Ephesians 5:15-16: “Make the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.”

2 Corinthians 6:2: “Now is the day of salvation.”

James 4:17: “Whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.”


How to Lay Down Excuses

• Examine: List recurring reasons you decline kingdom opportunities; invite the Spirit’s spotlight (Psalm 139:23-24).

• Reprioritize: Align calendar and budget with kingdom first-place status.

• Simplify: Release possessions or commitments that clutter obedience (Hebrews 12:1).

• Integrate: Fold family, work, and hobbies into kingdom service instead of letting them compete with it.

• Decide Quickly: Practice immediate “yes” in small prompts—call, visit, give, volunteer. Momentum grows.

• Remember the Feast: Keep the vision of the coming banquet vivid (Revelation 19:9). Joy outweighs the cost.


A Final Encouragement

No excuse, however polished, can match the surpassing worth of sitting at the King’s table. Say yes today; the banquet is already prepared.

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