The Test of Friendship
John 4:27-42
And on this came his disciples, and marveled that he talked with the woman: yet no man said, What seek you? or, Why talk you with her?


Even those whom we love and honour, and with whom our relations are peculiarly intimate, are likely to do things which we cannot at the time fully understand or account for. Then it is that our friendship is tested, and that it can show itself at its truest and best. A friend can be trusted even when he cannot be understood. A real friend will trust even when he does not understand. Nor does a friend always want to ask what or why when he is in doubt as to a loved one's conduct — which does not bear on his possible duty to that loved one. Peculiarly is it true that our Saviour's course, even in His dealings with ourselves, is not always understood by us. We must trust Him because we know Him, even while we do not know just what He is doing, and why, in His loving control of our interests and of His own.

(H. C. Trumbull, D. D.)



Parallel Verses
KJV: And upon this came his disciples, and marvelled that he talked with the woman: yet no man said, What seekest thou? or, Why talkest thou with her?

WEB: At this, his disciples came. They marveled that he was speaking with a woman; yet no one said, "What are you looking for?" or, "Why do you speak with her?"




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