Domestic Modesty and Display
Homilist
Proverbs 12:9
He that is despised, and has a servant, is better than he that honors himself, and lacks bread.


Vanity, or love of display, is one of the most contemptible and pernicious passions that can take possession of the human mind. Its roots are self-ignorance, its fruits are affectation and falsehood. The text refers to this in families, and when it takes possession of households it often destroys domestic comforts.

I. THERE ARE DOMESTIC COMFORTS WITHOUT DISPLAY. In many an unpretending cottage there is more real domestic enjoyment than can be found in the most imposing mansions.

II. THERE IS DOMESTIC DISPLAY WITHOUT COMFORTS. Many sacrifice comforts for appearances. They all but starve their domestics to feed their vanity. They must be grand though they lack bread. This love of appearance, this desire for show, is making sad havoc with the homes of old England.

III. THE CONDITION OF THE FORMER IS PREFERABLE TO THAT OF THE LATTER. It is better to have comforts without show than show without comforts.

1. It is more rational.

2. It is more moral.

3. It is more satisfying.

(Homilist.)



Parallel Verses
KJV: He that is despised, and hath a servant, is better than he that honoureth himself, and lacketh bread.

WEB: Better is he who is lightly esteemed, and has a servant, than he who honors himself, and lacks bread.




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