How does 1 Corinthians 6:4 guide us in resolving disputes among believers? The Text Itself “So if you need to settle everyday matters, do you appoint as judges those of no standing in the church?” (1 Corinthians 6:4) What Paul Is Saying in 1 Corinthians 6:4 • Disputes are inevitable; lawsuits before unbelievers are not. • Everyday (“trivial”) matters should be handled inside the fellowship. • God has placed spiritually mature believers—those with “standing in the church”—to act as judges. • Turning to secular courts implies the church lacks wisdom, contradicting the truth that believers will one day judge the world (1 Corinthians 6:2–3). Why It Matters Today • The verse affirms God’s design for church community: equipped to settle conflicts without dragging Christ’s name before a watching world. • Obeying this command protects the testimony of the gospel (John 13:35) and upholds unity (Psalm 133:1). • It reminds us that Scripture’s authority reaches into practical life, not just Sunday worship. Steps for Applying This Guidance 1. Examine the Nature of the Dispute – Is it criminal (Romans 13:3–4) or civil/personal? 1 Corinthians 6 addresses civil issues among believers. 2. Seek Personal Reconciliation First (Matthew 18:15). 3. If Unresolved, Invite One or Two Witnesses (Matthew 18:16). 4. Bring It to Church Leaders—those with spiritual maturity and proven character (1 Timothy 3:1–7). 5. Accept Their Judgment with Humility (Hebrews 13:17). 6. Choose Being Wronged Over Dividing the Body if necessary (1 Corinthians 6:7). Complementary Scriptures • Matthew 18:15–17 – Jesus’ roadmap for conflict resolution. • Proverbs 11:14 – “In the multitude of counselors there is safety.” • Galatians 6:1 – Restore the erring “in a spirit of gentleness.” • James 3:17 – Wisdom from above is “peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy.” • Philippians 2:3–4 – Look to others’ interests, not just your own. Heart Motivations to Cultivate • Reverence for Christ’s reputation—our witness is at stake. • Love for the brother or sister in conflict, valuing relationship over rights. • Trust in God’s Word as sufficient and authoritative for every matter. • Willingness to submit to godly counsel rather than defending personal pride. In Summary 1 Corinthians 6:4 calls believers to keep family business in the family of God. By appointing respected, spiritually mature members to arbitrate everyday disputes, the church honors Christ, guards unity, and demonstrates confidence in Scripture’s wisdom for all of life. |