How does 2 Samuel 14:3 illustrate the importance of wise counsel in decision-making? Setting the Scene “Then go to the king and speak to him these words.” And Joab put the words in her mouth. (2 Samuel 14:3) Observations from 2 Samuel 14:3 • Joab recognizes David’s paralysis over Absalom’s exile and devises a plan. • He recruits a “wise woman” from Tekoa, equipping her with precise words. • The verse highlights two layers of counsel: the adviser (Joab) and the spokesperson (the woman). • David, though a seasoned ruler, is still subject to the influence—good or bad—of those who approach him. Why Wise Counsel Matters • Even the most capable leaders need outside perspective (cf. Proverbs 11:14; 15:22). • Counsel shapes outcomes; Joab’s strategy ultimately opens the door for Absalom’s return. • Words “put … in her mouth” remind us that advice carries weight; the source and motive behind it are critical (Proverbs 12:5). Positive and Negative Sides of Joab’s Counsel + Positive: – Addresses a lingering family and national crisis. – Uses a creative, persuasive approach that David will hear. + Potentially Negative: – Driven by Joab’s agenda, not necessarily God’s revealed will. – Lacks transparency; the king is initially unaware of the manipulation (compare 1 Kings 12:6–15 for the danger of poor counsel). Lessons for Decision-Makers Today • Seek counsel that aligns with God’s Word—filter every suggestion through Scripture (Psalm 1:1–2). • Examine motives—ask whether the adviser benefits more than the one advised (Philippians 2:3–4). • Value both wisdom and integrity—wise words lose power when divorced from upright character (Proverbs 27:6). • Remain teachable—David listened because he stayed open; humility invites clarity (James 1:19). Practical Takeaways • Form a circle of trusted, biblically grounded advisers before crises arise. • Test advice by praying and cross-checking with Scripture. • Beware of flattery or hidden agendas masked as “helpful suggestions.” • Remember that even when God can use imperfect counsel for good, pursuing godly counsel from the outset spares needless complication. |
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