2 Sam 16:20: Effects of bad advice?
How does 2 Samuel 16:20 demonstrate the consequences of ungodly counsel?

Setting the Scene in 2 Samuel 16

• David has fled Jerusalem. Absalom marches in, determined to seize the throne (16:15).

• Absalom’s first recorded act as king is to turn to Ahithophel, David’s formerly trusted counselor.

2 Samuel 16:20: “Then Absalom said to Ahithophel, ‘Give your counsel. What shall we do?’”


Absalom’s Question: A Window into His Heart

• No prayer, no prophet, no priest—only a political strategist.

• By bypassing the Lord, Absalom shows he trusts human wisdom over divine revelation (cf. Psalm 33:16-17).

• His question sounds practical, yet it springs from ambition and bitterness, not a desire to honor God (James 3:14-16).


Marks of Ungodly Counsel in the Passage

• Satisfies the flesh: Ahithophel’s immediate advice is sexual—“Sleep with your father’s concubines” (16:21).

• Flaunts sin publicly: “All Israel will hear” (16:21). Ungodly counsel often applauds open rebellion (Isaiah 5:20).

• Ignores Scripture: Exodus 20:14 condemns adultery; Leviticus 18:8 forbids uncovering a father’s nakedness.

• Appears brilliant yet breeds destruction: “The advice of Ahithophel…was like one who inquires of the word of God” (16:23), but its fruit is death (Proverbs 14:12).


Ripple Effects of Ahithophel’s Advice

1. Personal degradation

• Absalom’s conscience hardens; immorality becomes policy (Romans 1:24-25).

2. National scandal

• A roof-top spectacle fulfills Nathan’s prophecy of public judgment (2 Samuel 12:11-12).

3. Fractured relationships

• Ahithophel’s counsel alienates father and son permanently.

4. Spiritual fallout

• God’s presence is absent from Absalom’s camp; victory shifts to David (2 Samuel 17:14).

5. Physical death

• Ahithophel, seeing his advice rejected later, hangs himself (17:23).

• Absalom dies in battle, caught in a tree, speared through the heart (18:14-15).

6. Lingering sorrow

• David’s anguished cry, “O my son Absalom” (18:33), echoes the grief ungodly counsel leaves behind.


Biblical Echoes and Reinforcements

Psalm 1:1—“Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked.”

Proverbs 13:20—“A companion of fools suffers harm.”

1 Kings 12:6-19—Rehoboam repeats the pattern, heeding reckless advice and splitting the kingdom.

Galatians 6:7-8—Sowing to the flesh reaps corruption.


Lessons for Today

• The first voice we invite shapes our destiny; seek the Lord before seeking experts.

• Counsel that contradicts Scripture, even when culturally acceptable, courts disaster.

• Public sin amplifies private rebellion; hidden motives eventually surface.

• God may permit ungodly counsel to fulfill judgment, yet He vindicates those who remain faithful.

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