What can we learn about seeking wisdom from Absalom's actions in this passage? Setting the Scene “Then Absalom said to Ahithophel, ‘Give me counsel. What should we do?’” (2 Samuel 16:20) Absalom’s Approach to Wisdom • Absalom turns first to a politically shrewd adviser, not to God. • His question reveals a heart fixed on strategy rather than righteousness: “What should we do?” not “What does the LORD require?” • The surrounding narrative shows he never pauses to seek the Lord (contrast David in 2 Samuel 5:19). The Dangers of Man-Centered Counsel • Proverbs 14:12 warns, “There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.” Absalom’s chosen path looked clever yet led to destruction (2 Samuel 18:14–15). • Psalm 1:1 highlights the progression of ungodly influence—walk, stand, sit. Absalom sits in counsel with Ahithophel and soon embraces sin. • Rehoboam mirrors this error in 1 Kings 12:8, rejecting seasoned, godly advice for voices that favored his ego; the kingdom split as a result. God’s Design for Seeking Wisdom • Ask God first: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives generously… and it will be given” (James 1:5). • Trust God’s revelation, not personal calculation: “Trust in the LORD with all your heart… He will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6). • Let Scripture illuminate every decision: “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path” (Psalm 119:105). • Seek counselors who fear the Lord (Proverbs 11:14; 15:22), ensuring advice harmonizes with God’s Word. Practical Takeaways for Today • Check your heart motive—are you craving affirmation or truth? • Begin decisions with prayer and Scripture before polling people. • Measure every piece of counsel against the clear teaching of the Bible. • Surround yourself with believers mature in the faith, not merely skilled or influential. • Resist flattery; Ahithophel’s insight catered to Absalom’s ambition. • Remember: the right method pursued apart from God’s will becomes the wrong path. |
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