How does 2 Samuel 20:18 emphasize the importance of seeking wise counsel? Setting the Scene “She said, ‘In days past they used to say, “Seek counsel at Abel,” and that is how they settled disputes.’” (2 Samuel 20:18) Why This Single Sentence Matters • The words come from an unnamed “wise woman,” highlighting that God often delivers wisdom through unexpected voices. • She recalls an established proverb about her city: if you wanted a matter resolved, you went to Abel for counsel. • Her reminder turns the tide of a national crisis—Joab halts his siege, Sheba is removed, and the city is spared (vv. 19-22). The Reputation of Abel • “Seek counsel at Abel” implies the town was known for elders who feared God and judged righteously (cf. Deuteronomy 17:8-9). • Such a reputation did not develop overnight; it grew from generations who revered God’s law and spread that wisdom to others. • The city’s legacy illustrates Proverbs 13:20: “He who walks with the wise will become wise”. Key Observations About Wise Counsel • Wise counsel is proactive—people came before conflict escalated. • Wise counsel is rooted in God’s truth, not mere opinion (Psalm 119:98-100). • Wise counsel preserves life and community; ignoring it invites ruin (Proverbs 11:14; 24:6). • God honors and vindicates those who seek and dispense wisdom (James 1:5; Isaiah 30:21). Principles for Us Today • Guard your own “reputation for wisdom.” Consistent, Scripture-shaped decisions build trust when crises arise. • When conflict surfaces, don’t delay; run toward trustworthy, godly voices. • Evaluate advice by the plumb line of Scripture (Acts 17:11). • Remember: a single wise word, offered humbly, can avert unnecessary destruction—just as in Abel. Supporting Scriptures • Proverbs 15:22 — “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” • Proverbs 19:20 — “Listen to counsel and accept discipline, that you may be wise the rest of your days.” • Ecclesiastes 7:19 — “Wisdom strengthens the wise more than ten rulers in a city.” • James 3:17 — “The wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.” |
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