Align obedience with God's will?
How can we ensure our obedience aligns with God's expectations in Matthew 19:20?

Scripture focus

Matthew 19:20: “The young man said to Him, ‘All these I have kept. What do I still lack?’”


Observing the scene

• A zealous seeker stands before Jesus, convinced his rule-keeping covers every demand of the law

• He senses a nagging gap, expressed in his closing words: “What do I still lack”

• Jesus will expose that hidden gap in verse 21, proving that genuine obedience reaches past outward performance to heart-level surrender


Recognizing the heart issue

• Checklist living can mask self-reliance and pride

• God’s standard is not met by external compliance alone; He looks for love-fueled devotion and total trust

• The young man’s confidence in his record shows the danger of substituting deeds for relationship


Four anchors for genuine obedience

1. Love for Christ above all possessions or status

John 14:15: “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.”

2. Humble admission of continual need

Psalm 139:23–24: “Search me, O God, and know my heart… lead me in the everlasting way.”

3. Willingness to surrender whatever blocks wholehearted follow-through

Matthew 19:21: “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor… then come, follow Me.”

4. Dependence on the Holy Spirit for power to obey

Romans 8:14: “All who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God.”


Heart checkpoints drawn from the Word

• Priority test: Obedience flows from love, never from mere rule-keeping (1 Corinthians 13:1-3)

• Integrity test: God values obedience over ritual (1 Samuel 15:22)

• Consistency test: Doing the word, not just hearing it (James 1:22)

• Compassion test: Justice, mercy, and humility mark a life aligned with God (Micah 6:8)


Daily practices that keep us aligned

• Start each day with Scripture, asking God to reveal any hidden “lack” and to shape motives

• Invite accountability with mature believers who will speak truth in love about blind spots

• Give generously and serve quietly, breaking any grip possessions may hold

• Schedule regular times of silent repentance, submitting plans and desires to the Lord

• Celebrate obedience done from joyful love, not fear or self-promotion


Living the lesson

Persistent self-examination under the light of Scripture, coupled with Spirit-empowered surrender, steers obedience away from mere externalism and into the wholehearted devotion Jesus desires.

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