How can we apply Jesus' patience with Thomas to our interactions with others? Setting the Scene John 20:27: “Then He said to Thomas, ‘Put your finger here and see My hands. Reach out your hand and put it into My side. Stop doubting and believe.’” Thomas had declared, “Unless I see… I will never believe.” Jesus answers, not with rebuke, but with an invitation. His response gives us a framework for dealing patiently with the doubters, strugglers, and slow-to-believe people in our own lives. What Patience Looked Like in Jesus • He initiates: Jesus returns specifically for Thomas (v. 26). • He listens: Thomas’ earlier words are repeated back almost verbatim, showing Jesus had heard him (v. 25 vs. 27). • He provides evidence: tangible, reasonable proof tailored to Thomas’ need. • He calls to faith: “Stop doubting and believe” is a gentle command, not a shaming scold. • He keeps relationship central: “Peace be with you” frames the entire encounter (v. 26). Scripture Echoes of Divine Patience • Romans 2:4 — “God’s kindness leads you to repentance.” • 2 Peter 3:9 — “The Lord is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish.” • James 1:19 — “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.” • Ephesians 4:2 — “With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love.” Practical Ways to Mirror Jesus with People Today Listen before lecturing • Give space for someone to voice real concerns without interruption. • Reflect back what you’ve heard so they know you understood. Offer tangible help • Provide resources, a verse, a personal testimony—evidence that meets the stated need. • Invite them to “come and see,” not just “take my word for it.” Maintain a peaceful tone • Lower your voice; soften your posture (Proverbs 15:1). • Keep the goal: restoration, not scoring a point. Speak truth gently • Don’t avoid calling for faith; do avoid belittling. • Phrase correction as an invitation: “Consider this…,” “Look at what Jesus says here…” Stay available • Checking in later mirrors Jesus’ return to the room. • Patience is shown over time, not in a single conversation. Guardrails for When Doubt Feels Like Defiance • Remember God’s mercy toward you (Colossians 3:12-13). • Pray privately for soft hearts while speaking graciously. • Set healthy boundaries if disrespect becomes habitual, yet keep the door open for repentance. Heart Takeaways • Christ’s patience is purposeful, leading Thomas from skepticism to worship (“My Lord and my God!” v. 28). • Our patience can become the bridge God uses to move others from doubt to faith. • By echoing Jesus’ posture—initiating, listening, providing evidence, and inviting belief—we embody the gospel we share. |
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