How can we apply Jesus' teaching in Matthew 15:5 to modern family dynamics? Context of Matthew 15:5 “ ‘But you say that if anyone tells his father or mother, “Whatever you would have received from me is a gift devoted to God,” ’ ” (Matthew 15:5) • The Pharisees allowed people to pronounce their resources “Corban” (consecrated) and thereby dodge the practical duty to care for parents. • Jesus exposed this as pious-sounding disobedience, nullifying God’s clear command to honor father and mother (Exodus 20:12; Mark 7:11-13). Key Principle: Honoring Parents Is Non-Negotiable • Scripture repeatedly links love for God with tangible honor for parents (Ephesians 6:2-3; Proverbs 23:22). • Jesus upheld both the letter and the spirit of the fifth commandment. Religious activity must never cancel familial responsibility. Recognizing “Corban” in Modern Homes • Hiding behind career, ministry, or personal goals to neglect aging parents. • Shifting all care to institutions when direct involvement is possible. • Using financial commitments or “tight budgets” as excuses while still funding luxuries. • Offering words of honor without concrete help—time, attention, resources. Practical Ways to Apply the Teaching Today Prioritizing Presence • Schedule regular visits, calls, or video chats; keep them consistent. • Include parents in family milestones and ordinary routines. Providing Practical Support • Share household tasks, transportation, medical appointments, and paperwork. • Budget intentionally for parental needs before optional spending (1 Timothy 5:8). Protecting Dignity • Speak respectfully, even when roles shift and you make decisions for them. • Invite their wisdom; affirm their value and legacy. Promoting Unity Among Siblings • Communicate openly about care plans and expenses. • Divide responsibilities according to gifting and availability, not convenience. Modeling to the Next Generation • Let children see honoring behavior lived out; it plants seeds for how they will treat you (Colossians 3:20). Fruit That Flows from Obedience • Stronger family bonds rooted in sacrificial love. • A clear conscience and credible witness before a watching world. • Generational blessing promised by God: “that it may go well with you” (Ephesians 6:3). By refusing modern versions of “Corban” and embracing active honor, believers display genuine devotion to Christ and preserve God’s design for the family. |
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