How can we apply Solomon's example of respect in our daily interactions? Setting the Scene: Solomon’s Gesture of Honor “Bathsheba went to King Solomon to speak to him for Adonijah. The king stood up to meet her, bowed down to her, and sat on his throne. He had a throne brought for the king’s mother, and she sat down at his right hand.” (1 Kings 2:19) What Solomon Did: A Closer Look • Stood up when his mother entered • Bowed before her • Provided her a throne of her own • Placed her at his right hand—position of dignity and partnership Timeless Principles Drawn from 1 Kings 2:19 • Honor begins with attitude—Solomon’s heart was set to esteem his mother. • Respect shows in physical actions—standing, bowing, making space. • True authority never fears elevating others—Solomon’s throne for Bathsheba underscored her worth. • Honor is public as well as private—his court saw this model and learned. Other Scriptural Echoes of Honor • Exodus 20:12—“Honor your father and your mother.” • Leviticus 19:32—“You shall rise in the presence of the aged.” • Ephesians 6:2—“Honor your father and mother (which is the first commandment with a promise).” • Romans 12:10—“Outdo one another in showing honor.” • 1 Peter 2:17—“Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king.” Practical Ways to Mirror Solomon’s Respect Today • Greet parents and elders with genuine warmth—stand, make eye contact, offer a firm but gentle handshake or embrace. • Create space of honor—give the better seat, hold the door, let them speak first. • Listen without rushing—turn off devices, lean in, value their words. • Speak blessing—express gratitude for their sacrifices and wisdom. • Defend their reputation—refuse to mock or belittle authority figures or family members. • Serve quietly—run errands, cook a meal, handle a task before being asked. • Remember birthdays and anniversaries—small acts signal large honor. Living It Out: A Daily Checklist □ Did I greet my parents, spouse, or mentor today with intentional warmth? □ Did my body language communicate genuine esteem? □ Did I give someone else the place of prominence? □ Did my words build up those in authority rather than tear them down? □ Did I model honor in front of younger eyes who will imitate me? “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord…” (Colossians 3:23). Solomon’s simple actions before his mother remind us that every courteous gesture can glorify the King above and cultivate a culture of honor around us. |
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