How can we apply Thomas's honesty in John 14:5 to our prayer life? The Scene in the Upper Room “Thomas said to Him, ‘Lord, we do not know where You are going; how can we know the way?’” (John 14:5) Jesus had just promised, “I am going to prepare a place for you” (v. 2). Most of the disciples stayed silent. Thomas, however, voiced what everyone else was thinking but afraid to admit. What We Learn from Thomas’s Question •He speaks directly to Jesus, not about Jesus. •He states the problem plainly—“we do not know.” •He seeks guidance instead of pretending he already understands. This unvarnished honesty is exactly what Scripture invites for our own conversations with God. Why Honesty Matters in Prayer •God already knows the contents of our hearts (Psalm 139:1–4). Hiding only strains fellowship. •Straightforward speech positions us to receive straightforward answers (James 1:5–6). •Christ Himself welcomes bold approach: “Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence” (Hebrews 4:16). Practical Ways to Pray Like Thomas 1.Acknowledge confusion. – “Father, I don’t understand why this is happening.” 2.Ask direct questions. – “Show me the next step; what is the way forward?” 3.Confess limits rather than feigning strength. – Echo David: “I am poor and needy” (Psalm 86:1). 4.Invite Jesus to clarify. – “Speak, Lord, for Your servant is listening” (1 Samuel 3:9). 5.Wait for the answer—Scripture, inner witness of the Spirit, counsel of mature believers. 6.Respond with faith when clarity comes, just as Thomas later declared, “My Lord and my God!” (John 20:28). Promises That Encourage Frank Prayer •Psalm 62:8: “Pour out your hearts before Him; God is our refuge.” •Proverbs 3:5–6: “Trust in the LORD with all your heart… He will make your paths straight.” •1 Peter 5:7: “Cast all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you.” •Mark 9:24: “I do believe; help my unbelief!”—another example of honest admission met with compassionate help. Closing Takeaways •Honesty doesn’t offend Jesus; it invites His revelation. •Questions expressed in faith become channels for deeper understanding. •When prayer begins with “Lord, I don’t know,” it often ends with “Lord, now I see.” |
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