How can we apply the principle of seeking peace from 2 Samuel 20:18? Setting the Scene at Abel Beth Maacah When Joab was ready to destroy an entire city to catch the rebel Sheba, a wise woman stepped forward. She reminded Joab of an old saying that Abel was a place people went to “settle matters.” Her appeal stopped a war before it ever began. The Principle Stated “Then she spoke, saying, ‘Long ago they used to say, “Seek counsel at Abel,” and that is how disputes were settled.’” (2 Samuel 20:18) The proverb means, “When you have a conflict, go where wisdom and peace are valued, and resolve it.” Timeless Truth: God Honors Peacemakers • Scripture is clear and trustworthy; every historical incident carries a lesson for today. • From Genesis to Revelation, God honors those who choose peace over violence: – “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God.” (Matthew 5:9) – “If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18) – “The wisdom from above is first pure, then peace-loving…” (James 3:17-18) Practical Ways to Seek Peace Today • Start by listening. That nameless woman listened to Joab and understood the problem before speaking. • Speak with calm confidence. “A gentle answer turns away wrath.” (Proverbs 15:1) • Appeal to shared values. She cited an accepted proverb; we can point to common ground in Christ. • Offer a righteous solution. She proposed handing over one guilty man instead of destroying many innocents—justice and mercy combined. • Act quickly yet wisely. Delay can harden hearts; decisive, prayer-saturated action can disarm conflict. • Guard your own spirit. “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.” (Colossians 3:15) Common Obstacles and Biblical Answers • Pride—humble yourself (1 Peter 5:5-6). • Fear of being misunderstood—trust God’s vindication (Psalm 37:5-6). • Anger—“Be angry yet do not sin… give no opportunity to the devil.” (Ephesians 4:26-27) • Gossip—stop the rumor mill; “where there is no wood, the fire goes out.” (Proverbs 26:20) Encouragement to Act We honor the Lord and safeguard His people when we refuse to escalate conflict and instead “seek counsel at Abel”—finding wise, biblical solutions that preserve life and glorify God. |
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