What does Elihu's respect for elders teach us about honoring authority? Setting the Scene • Job 32:4 — “Now Elihu had waited to speak to Job because the others were older than he.” • For many chapters Job’s three friends have argued; Elihu, though burning to respond (32:2-3), consciously holds back out of deference to their age. Key Observations from Elihu’s Example • Waiting shows humility: he recognizes the dignity God assigns to age (cf. Leviticus 19:32). • Listening before speaking: he gathers the full story rather than rushing in (James 1:19). • Respect does not silence truth: once the elders finish, Elihu speaks boldly but still addresses them with courtesy (32:6). Biblical Principles of Honoring Authority • God-appointed structure: “Everyone must submit himself to the governing authorities…” (Romans 13:1). • Age deserves deference: “Gray hair is a crown of glory” (Proverbs 16:31). • Church leadership: “Obey your leaders and submit to them…” (Hebrews 13:17). • Family order: “Honor your father and your mother” (Exodus 20:12). • Mutual humility: “Young men…submit yourselves to your elders” (1 Peter 5:5). What Respect Looks Like in Daily Life • Give space for older voices to finish before adding your insight. • Address elders with familial warmth—“as to a father” (1 Timothy 5:1). • Seek counsel from seasoned believers before major decisions. • Guard tone and body language; rise, lean in, maintain eye contact (Leviticus 19:32). • When disagreement is necessary, use gentle, reasoned words, aiming to build up rather than embarrass. Why This Matters • Honors God’s created order; resisting rightful authority resists God (Romans 13:2). • Protects us from youthful presumption; humility invites wisdom (Proverbs 11:2). • Strengthens unity in the body of Christ; respectful dialogue prevents divisions (Ephesians 4:3). Live It Out This Week 1. Identify one elder—parent, pastor, seasoned believer—and ask for advice on a current challenge. 2. In meetings or group settings, pause until others finish, then contribute concisely. 3. Express tangible honor: a thank-you note, a public affirmation, practical service. 4. Pray for leaders by name, asking God to guide and protect them. Encouraging Takeaway Elihu’s patience teaches that honoring authority is not passive silence but humble, thoughtful engagement. When we listen first and speak with reverent boldness, we mirror a heart that ultimately honors the Lord who establishes every rightful authority. |
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