Emulate Jesus' compassion daily?
How can we emulate Jesus' compassion in John 11:33 in our daily lives?

The scene at Bethany

“ When Jesus saw her weeping and the Jews who had come with her also weeping, He was deeply moved in spirit and troubled.” (John 11:33)

• Martha has confessed faith, Mary is sobbing, friends are grieving.

• Jesus stands amid authentic sorrow and lets it pierce His own heart.

• The word translated “deeply moved” carries the sense of aching emotion that cannot stay hidden.


What we learn about the heart of Jesus

• He notices tears before He offers solutions.

• He allows longing and loss to touch Him—even though He is minutes away from raising Lazarus.

• His compassion is not detached pity; it is shared experience (Hebrews 4:15).


Keys to imitating His compassion

1. Slow down and see people.

• Jesus “saw her weeping.” Slowing our pace allows us to perceive hurting hearts.

2. Feel first, speak later.

Proverbs 25:20 warns that singing cheerful songs to a heavy heart is like taking away a coat on a cold day.

3. Enter their experience.

• “Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep.” (Romans 12:15)

4. Let compassion drive action.

• Jesus moves from tears to commanding, “Lazarus, come out!” (v. 43)

• Genuine care expresses itself in concrete help—meals, presence, advocacy.

5. Guard tenderness.

Colossians 3:12: “Put on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.”

• Regular time in the Gospels keeps hearts soft.


Practical steps for the week ahead

• Identify one person carrying grief or stress; schedule time to listen without agenda.

• Keep tissues handy—literal or figurative—and refuse to be embarrassed by tears, yours or theirs.

• Set a reminder each morning: “Feel before I fix.”

• Practice short breath prayers such as “Lord, break my heart for what breaks Yours.”

• Volunteer once this week where pain is obvious—hospital, nursing home, crisis-pregnancy center—letting proximity nurture compassion.


Scriptures that strengthen compassion

Matthew 9:36: “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.”

Ephesians 4:32: “Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

1 Peter 3:8: “Finally, all of you, be like-minded and sympathetic, love as brothers, be tenderhearted and humble.”

Let each encounter become an opportunity to mirror the Savior who felt deeply and acted decisively, turning sorrow into hope.

How does John 11:33 connect to Hebrews 4:15 about Jesus' empathy?
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