How does Exodus 21:10 guide us in honoring marital commitments today? A snapshot of covenant care: Exodus 21:10 “If he takes another wife, he must not diminish the first one’s food, clothing, or marital rights.” Three enduring obligations spelled out • Food – consistent provision of nourishment • Clothing – tangible protection, shelter, and dignity • Marital rights – faithful intimacy that honors the one-flesh bond From ancient case law to daily married life • The verse protects the vulnerable, showing God’s concern that no spouse be neglected • The principle transcends polygamy: every husband and wife is bound to full, unbroken care for each other • With Scripture’s authority, the covenant remains exclusive, lifelong, and mutually responsible New Testament echoes • 1 Corinthians 7:3-4: spouses “fulfill the marital duty” toward one another • Ephesians 5:25-29: husbands “nourish and cherish” their wives just as Christ does the church • 1 Timothy 5:8: providing for one’s household is a mark of genuine faith • Hebrews 13:4: marriage is to be “honored by all” Practical commitments for today • Budget and plan so basic needs are never in doubt • Safeguard time for shared meals, conversation, and physical affection • Clothe one another with respect—no belittling words or neglect of emotional covering • Stand guard over purity, refusing anything that would divide heart or body • Face trials together: job loss, illness, aging parents—never allowing hardship to excuse neglect • Seek counsel early when patterns of withholding emerge An invitation to covenant faithfulness Honoring Exodus 21:10 means delighting in God’s design: steadfast provision, protective love, and joyful intimacy that reflect Christ’s own unwavering commitment to His people. |
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