Finding hope when feeling forsaken?
How can we find hope when feeling "the Almighty has dealt bitterly"?

Setting the Scene: Naomi’s Bitter Cry

“Do not call me Naomi,” she replied. “Call me Mara, because the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me.” (Ruth 1:20)

• Naomi’s words flow from real loss—famine, exile, widowhood, and the death of her sons.

• Her honesty shows Scripture’s invitation to voice pain while still acknowledging God’s hand.


Candid Confession: Recognizing Pain Without Shame

• Naomi does not deny God’s sovereignty; she feels its weight: “the Almighty has dealt very bitterly.”

• Admitting bitterness is not unbelief; it is an opening for truth to enter. “Pour out your hearts before Him; God is our refuge.” (Psalm 62:8)


Truth #1: God’s Sovereignty Remains Sure

• “I know that the LORD is great, that our Lord is above all gods.” (Psalm 135:5)

• Even calamity bows to Him: “I form the light and create darkness; I bring prosperity and create calamity; I, the LORD, do all these things.” (Isaiah 45:7)

• Because God rules, suffering has limits and purpose, never randomness.


Truth #2: God’s Covenant Love Persists

• Within Naomi’s grief stands Ruth, a living pledge of loyal love (hesed).

• God’s steadfast love never ceases (Lamentations 3:22–23); He plants signs of that love even in barren fields.


Truth #3: God’s Providence Works in Hidden Ways

• The Moabite widow walking beside Naomi will become the great-grandmother of David and part of Messiah’s line (Ruth 4:13–22).

• “We know that God works all things together for the good of those who love Him.” (Romans 8:28)


Steps Toward Hope When Bitter

• Acknowledge the hurt—name it as Naomi did.

• Remember God’s past faithfulness—rehearse answered prayers and preserved mercies.

• Re-immerse in Scripture—let objective truth reinterpret subjective pain.

• Stay with God’s people—Ruth’s loyalty mirrors Christ’s body bearing one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2).

• Expect future redemption—what feels final is often prelude. “For our light and momentary affliction is producing for us an eternal weight of glory.” (2 Corinthians 4:17)


Promises to Anchor the Heart

• Presence: “The LORD is near to the brokenhearted.” (Psalm 34:18)

• Protection: “When you pass through the waters, I will be with you.” (Isaiah 43:2)

• Purpose: “I know the plans I have for you… plans for welfare and not for calamity.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

• Peace: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing.” (Romans 15:13)


Living It Out Today

• Trace the threads—identify present signs of God’s care, however small.

• Share the story—testify of God’s faithfulness, reinforcing hope in your own heart and others’.

• Wait with expectancy—God turned Naomi’s “Mara” into joy; He still turns ashes to beauty.

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