How can we apply the principle of honoring parents in modern society? The timeless command in Jesus’ own words “ ‘Honor your father and your mother,’ and, ‘Whoever curses his father or mother must be put to death.’ ” (Mark 7:10) Why honoring parents still matters today • God placed this command in both Old (Exodus 20:12) and New Testaments (Ephesians 6:2–3), showing it is permanent, not cultural. • It is the first command with a promise—“that it may go well with you.” • Honoring earthly parents trains us to honor our heavenly Father (Hebrews 12:9). • Society flourishes when family authority is respected; it fractures when it is despised (2 Timothy 3:1–3). Practical ways to honor parents in 21st-century life • Speak respectfully – Tone matters in person, on the phone, and online (Proverbs 30:17). – Avoid mocking memes or sarcastic posts about them. • Listen and value their wisdom – “Hear, my son, your father’s instruction…” (Proverbs 1:8). – Ask for their counsel on decisions; even if you choose differently, thank them for sharing. • Express gratitude regularly – Verbal thanks, handwritten notes, simple texts, public acknowledgment on birthdays or anniversaries. • Provide practical help – Errands, household repairs, tech support. – Share skills God has given you; they once wiped your nose, you can now troubleshoot their router. • Financial support when needed – “If a widow has children or grandchildren, they should first learn to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family” (1 Timothy 5:4). – Budget to help with medical bills, groceries, or housing. • Prioritize time – Schedule visits and calls; don’t let busyness crowd them out. – Include them in holidays and milestones so they feel woven into your life. • Protect their dignity as they age – Involve them in decisions about their care. – Honor their preferences unless they clearly endanger themselves. • Celebrate their legacy – Preserve family stories, photos, traditions; your children learn honor by watching you. When honoring becomes hard • If parents are unbelieving or hostile, continue to show kindness (Romans 12:18). • If parents sin or abuse, honor God first: seek safety, establish boundaries, but refuse bitterness (Ephesians 4:31–32). • Forgive as Christ forgave you; forgiveness releases you from bondage, even if reconciliation is limited. Passing the torch to the next generation • Model honor in front of your children—how you speak about grandparents shapes how they will speak about you. • Teach them Exodus 20:12 and share stories of times God blessed obedience. • Create multi-generational moments—meals, projects, vacations—so honoring parents feels normal, not forced. God never rescinded this command. In any culture—digital, mobile, fast-paced—the call stands: honor the father and mother He gave you, and watch Him keep His promise that it may go well with you. |
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