How can church leaders avoid being "arrogant" as described in Titus 1:7? Titus 1:7 at a Glance “For the overseer must be above reproach, not self-willed, not quick-tempered, not given to drunkenness, not violent, not pursuing dishonest gain.” The Heart Behind “Not Self-Willed” • Self-willed translates a term meaning stubbornly pleased with oneself, arrogantly insisting on one’s own way. • Arrogance poisons leadership because it places personal preference above God’s people and God’s glory. Spotting Arrogance Early • An inability to listen—Proverbs 18:2 • Defensiveness when corrected—Proverbs 9:8-9 • A pattern of “my ministry, my platform” language—1 Corinthians 4:7 • Lording authority rather than serving—1 Peter 5:3 Cultivating Christlike Humility Philippians 2:3-5 calls leaders to “consider others more important than yourselves.” • Remember Who owns the church—Acts 20:28 • Regularly meditate on Christ washing the disciples’ feet—John 13:3-17 • Keep the cross central; grace levels all pride—Galatians 6:14 Practical Habits for Leaders • Begin every decision with prayer and Scripture, not personal preference. • Invite honest feedback from fellow elders and mature members. • Celebrate others’ gifts publicly; downplay personal accomplishments. • Schedule time with those unlike you in age, culture, or status; listen first. • Practice generous giving and anonymous service to train the heart away from self-promotion—Matthew 6:3-4. • Guard the pulpit: preach God’s Word, not personal opinions—2 Timothy 4:2. The Safety Net of Accountability • Plurality of elders (Acts 14:23) prevents one voice from dominating. • External mentors can ask the questions insiders fear to raise—Proverbs 27:17. • Regular evaluation against the qualifications of 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 keeps the standard visible. Consequences of Humble Leadership • God’s grace flows to the humble—James 4:6. • The flock feels safe to grow and serve—Ephesians 4:11-13. • The watching world sees a living picture of Christ, “gentle and humble in heart” (Matthew 11:29). Arrogance loses its grip when leaders continually gaze at Christ, submit to His Word, and serve His people with open hands and open hearts. |
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