How can prayer aid a spouse's salvation?
In what ways can prayer support a spouse's potential salvation?

Anchor Verse: Hope for the Household

1 Corinthians 7:16

"Wife, how do you know whether you will save your husband? Husband, how do you know whether you will save your wife?"

God places believing husbands and wives in their marriages as living testimonies. The verse invites confident, persevering prayer that He will use that witness to draw the unbelieving spouse to salvation.


Why Prayer Matters in Marriage

• Prayer acknowledges God alone saves (Jonah 2:9; John 6:44)

• It unleashes divine power that human persuasion cannot supply (Ephesians 6:18)

• Prayer guards the believing spouse from discouragement and bitterness (Philippians 4:6-7)

• It is spiritual warfare against the blindness Satan imposes (2 Corinthians 4:4; Ephesians 6:12)

• God delights to answer petitions that align with His desire that none should perish (2 Peter 3:9)


Specific Requests that Support a Spouse’s Salvation

• A tender, responsive heart

 – Ezekiel 36:26: "I will remove your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh."

• Removal of spiritual blindness

 – 2 Corinthians 4:4: ask that the veil be lifted to see “the light of the gospel.”

• Conviction of sin leading to repentance

 – John 16:8; 2 Corinthians 7:10.

• Opportunities to hear and understand the Word

 – Romans 10:17: "faith comes by hearing."

• Holy Spirit’s drawing and sealing work

 – John 6:44; Ephesians 1:13-14.

• Protection from hostile influences and deceit

 – 2 Thessalonians 3:3.

• A clear, attractive witness in the believing spouse

 – 1 Peter 3:1-2: a pure and respectful life “without a word.”

• God-ordained encouragers outside the home

 – Matthew 9:38: ask the Lord to “send out workers into His harvest.”


Practical Rhythms of Intercession

• Set aside a daily, unhurried slot—consistency over length.

• Pair prayer with Scripture reading; pray verses back to God.

• Fast periodically to sharpen focus (Matthew 6:17-18).

• Keep a journal of requests and observed answers; gratitude fuels endurance.

• Recruit one or two trusted believers to agree in prayer (Matthew 18:19).

• Pray on the spot when tension rises; exchange frustration for petition.

• Speak blessings aloud when spouse cannot hear; sow seeds of grace.


Promises to Stand On

Acts 16:31 – “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you and your household will be saved.”

James 5:16 – “The prayer of a righteous person has great power.”

Isaiah 55:11 – His Word “will not return to Me empty.”

Galatians 6:9 – “At the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”


Encouragement for the Long Journey

• Salvation is a miracle; miracles happen on God’s timetable, not ours.

• Your quiet faithfulness may speak louder than eloquent arguments.

• Every answered prayer—however small—reminds you God is listening.

• The same grace that keeps you praying is the grace that can save your spouse.

How can 1 Peter 3:1-2 relate to 1 Corinthians 7:16's message?
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