How can we aid others like Esther did?
In what ways can we support those in distress, as Esther did?

Seeing Distress with Spirit-Led Eyes

• Esther “was deeply distressed” when she heard of Mordecai’s grief (Esther 4:4).

• Compassion begins by noticing pain, not looking away (Luke 10:33).

• Ask the Lord to keep your heart tender so you perceive the hurts around you.


Moving Promptly to Bring Comfort

• “She sent clothing for Mordecai to wear instead of his sackcloth” (Esther 4:4).

• Compassion acts without delay—“Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due” (Proverbs 3:27).

• Small, swift deeds—meals, phone calls, a visit—signal that suffering persons are not forgotten.


Offering Tangible Relief

• Practical gifts meet pressing needs: clothing, finances, shelter.

• “If a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food…what good is it?” (James 2:15-16).

Galatians 6:2—“Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”


Listening and Gathering Information

• Esther sent Hathach “to learn what was happening and why” (Esther 4:5).

• Take time to hear the story; informed help is effective help (Proverbs 18:13).

• Gentle questions communicate respect and value.


Connecting Others to Help

• Esther became Mordecai’s advocate before the king (Esther 5).

• We may need to open doors, speak on behalf of the hurting, or link them with counselors, pastors, or resources (Acts 11:29-30).

• “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves” (Proverbs 31:8-9).


Pointing the Distressed to God

• Esther called the Jews to fast and seek divine favor (Esther 4:15-16).

• Remind the suffering that “The LORD is near to the brokenhearted” (Psalm 34:18).

• Pray with them, read Scripture aloud, encourage trust in God’s sovereign care.


Counting the Cost and Standing with Them

• “If I perish, I perish” (Esther 4:16) —real support may demand risk, time, or reputation.

• “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13).

• Faithfulness means remaining present even when the crisis is long or complicated.


Serving with Humility and Wisdom

• Esther acted discreetly, seeking God’s timing and counsel.

Micah 6:8 calls us “to act justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.”

• Avoid spotlighting yourself; direct glory to the Lord who empowers every act of mercy.

By imitating Esther—seeing need, moving quickly, offering practical aid, listening well, advocating, praying, persevering, and walking humbly—we become God’s instruments to sustain brothers and sisters in their darkest hours.

How does Esther 4:4 connect to Romans 12:15 about empathy and compassion?
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