How can we deepen our love for others?
What practical steps can we take to love one another more deeply?

A Clear Call from Jesus

John 13:35: “By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love one for another.”


Why This Matters

• Our reputation as disciples rests on tangible love, not words.

• The setting is Jesus washing feet—love expressed in humble service.


Practical Steps to Love One Another More Deeply

1. Cultivate Humility

Philippians 2:3-4—esteem others above self.

• Listen more, speak less.

• Celebrate others’ wins, admit your wrongs.

2. Serve Tangibly and Consistently

Galatians 6:2—carry burdens.

• Provide meals, rides, childcare.

• Block out weekly time for acts of service.

3. Speak Life-Giving Words

Ephesians 4:29—only build up.

• Encourage publicly, correct privately.

• Shut down gossip; point to prayer instead.

4. Practice Generous Forgiveness

Ephesians 4:32—forgive as Christ forgave you.

• Address conflict quickly; keep short accounts.

• Pray for the offender until bitterness fades.

5. Share Everyday Life

Acts 2:46-47—eat together with glad hearts.

• Invite others into meals, errands, hobbies.

• Celebrate life events as a family in Christ.

6. Give Sacrificially

1 John 3:17-18—love in action and truth.

• Budget for generosity; support needs quietly.

• Offer skills—repairs, tutoring, counsel—free of charge.

7. Pray Specifically and Often

James 5:16—pray for one another.

• Keep a running list of needs and updates.

• Pray with people on the spot, not just later.

8. Grow in Patience and Kindness

1 Corinthians 13:4-7—love bears, believes, hopes, endures.

• Give space for others to mature.

• Respond to irritations with gentle grace.


Living the Difference

Choose any two of these steps to start this week. As love becomes visible, John 13:35 is fulfilled—the world sees unmistakable evidence that Jesus truly changes lives.

How does John 13:35 connect with 1 John 4:7-8 on love?
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