In what ways can we promote peace instead of strife in our community? Setting the Stage: Proverbs 26:21 “As charcoal to embers and as wood to fire, so is a quarrelsome man for kindling strife.” (Proverbs 26:21) The Pattern of Strife - Charcoal and wood do one thing when a spark is present: they intensify the flame. - A quarrelsome spirit works the same way—adding fuel to every disagreement until it blazes into open conflict. - Scripture presents strife not as an unfortunate accident but a predictable outcome when contention is tolerated. Choosing the Opposite: Cultivating Peace - Guard your words: refuse to supply fresh “fuel” through gossip, sarcasm, or harsh replies. - Slow the conversation: listen first, answer after reflection (Proverbs 15:1). - Seek reconciliation quickly; lingering offenses smolder until they ignite. - Speak truth in love—never sidestep sin, but address it with gentleness (Ephesians 4:29). - Demonstrate humility by admitting faults and asking forgiveness, cutting off the cycle of blame. - Prioritize relationships over winning arguments; unity honors Christ more than personal vindication. - Intercede in prayer for those involved; God alone can change hearts. Practical Steps for Today 1. Commit to a “no-gossip” policy; change the subject or offer to pray when negative talk starts. 2. Before replying, breathe and recall Romans 12:18—“live at peace with everyone” as far as it depends on you. 3. Send an encouraging message to someone who recently faced criticism; build instead of burn. 4. Volunteer alongside people of different backgrounds; serving together diffuses suspicion. 5. When social media heats up, step back or post Scripture that points to Christ rather than controversy. 6. Keep short accounts: settle family or church tensions before the next sunrise (Ephesians 4:26). Supporting Scriptures: The Whole Counsel of God - “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1) - “If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18) - “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God.” (Matthew 5:9) - “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up the one in need.” (Ephesians 4:29) - “The wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peace-loving… Peacemakers who sow in peace reap the fruit of righteousness.” (James 3:17–18) - “Put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience… and let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.” (Colossians 3:12, 15) A Life That Shines When we refuse to add fuel to conflict and actively sow peace, the fire of strife dies out. Our homes, churches, and neighborhoods become testimonies that the Prince of Peace truly reigns, drawing others toward the warmth of His reconciling love. |
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