How can we grow wisdom in relationships?
In what ways can we actively "build" wisdom in our personal relationships?

Verse for Reflection

“Walk with the wise and you will become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” — Proverbs 13:20


Observations from the Text

• Wisdom can be transferred through close association.

• Choice of companions directly shapes character and outcomes.

• Harm is not merely possible but inevitable when fellowship centers on folly.


Practical Ways to Build Wisdom in Relationships

• Intentionally seek friendships with believers who model Christ-like discernment.

• Share and discuss Scripture together; let God’s word frame conversations (Colossians 3:16).

• Invite accountability—allow trusted friends to speak truth lovingly (Proverbs 27:6).

• Value counsel over flattery; weigh advice against Scripture (Proverbs 11:14).

• Guard speech: offer words that edify, not tear down (Ephesians 4:29).

• Observe and imitate godly examples; watch how they handle conflict, finances, and family (Philippians 3:17).

• Limit exposure to relationships that normalize sin or scoff at biblical standards (Psalm 1:1).


Supporting Scriptures

• “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.” — Proverbs 27:17

• “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” — 1 Corinthians 15:33

• “Whoever isolates himself pursues selfish desires; he resists all sound judgment.” — Proverbs 18:1

• “The discerning heart seeks knowledge, but the mouth of a fool feeds on folly.” — Proverbs 15:14


Personal Action Steps This Week

• Schedule a coffee or call with a spiritually mature friend; ask how they cultivate wisdom.

• Memorize Proverbs 13:20 and recite it when choosing social plans.

• Replace ten minutes of social media with reading a chapter of Proverbs daily.

• Identify one relationship that pulls you toward foolishness; set clear, loving boundaries.

• Encourage someone today with a verse or insight God has given you, strengthening both hearts in wisdom.

How does Proverbs 9:1 connect with Jesus as the foundation of wisdom?
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