In what ways can we avoid the pride seen in Benjamin's response? The Lesson from Benjamin’s Stand - Judges 20:14 shows the tribe closing ranks instead of confronting sin. They chose loyalty to kin over loyalty to the LORD, placed reputation above repentance, and trusted military strength rather than divine help. - Proverbs 16:18: “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” Benjamin’s downfall illustrates the proverb in living color. How Pride Still Sneaks In - Excusing or covering up sin because “he’s one of us.” - Reacting defensively when confronted, instead of listening. - Equating public image with spiritual health. - Relying on past victories, titles, or heritage rather than daily dependence on God. Guardrails That Keep Us Low Before the Lord 1. Submit to Scripture, not sentiment - Psalm 119:105 “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” - When the Bible exposes wrong, repent quickly, even if the cost is high. 2. Welcome correction - Proverbs 13:10 “Wisdom is with those who receive counsel.” - Invite trusted believers to speak truth into blind spots. 3. Choose righteousness over reputation - Matthew 5:23–24 urges immediate reconciliation; hiding sin to save face only deepens guilt. 4. Value covenant community over tribal loyalty - Galatians 6:2 “Carry one another’s burdens.” Mutual accountability works only if honesty outranks image. 5. Remember whom God favors - James 4:6 “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” Opposition from the Almighty is never worth a moment’s pride. Daily Practices That Cultivate Humility - Begin each morning with Psalm 139:23–24, asking God to search the heart. - Keep short accounts with God: 1 John 1:9—confess promptly, receive cleansing. - Journal answered prayers and mercies to remember dependence on Him. - Serve unseen and unthanked whenever possible (John 13:14–15). - Regularly fast or practice another discipline that reminds the body it is not in charge. - Celebrate others’ victories to choke envy before it sprouts. - Speak less, listen more: Proverbs 17:27 “A man of knowledge restrains his words.” Walking Forward Together - Humility is not weakness; it is clear-eyed surrender to the One who truly rules. Benjamin’s pride cost them dearly. Our humility invites the God who “gives grace to the humble” (1 Peter 5:5) to work in and through us, preserving unity, purity, and lasting joy. |
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