In what ways can we practice compassion as seen in Job 21:5? The Text: Job 21:5 “Look at me and be appalled; put your hand over your mouth.” The Core Movements of Compassion in the Verse • Look: give your full, deliberate attention to the sufferer • Be appalled: allow the weight of another’s pain to grip your heart • Put your hand over your mouth: restrain quick explanations, judgments, or corrections What Job Longed for From His Friends • A steady gaze that did not flinch at the sight of affliction • Hearts that felt shock and sorrow rather than cold analysis • Silence that honored the mystery of suffering instead of filling it with speeches Biblical Echoes that Reinforce the Pattern • Romans 12:15 – “Rejoice with those who rejoice. Weep with those who weep.” • James 1:19 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.” • Proverbs 17:28 – “Even a fool is considered wise if he keeps silent, and discerning when he holds his tongue.” • John 11:35 – “Jesus wept.” • Galatians 6:2 – “Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” Practical Ways to “Look” • Make eye contact; put aside phones and distractions • Show up physically when possible—presence often speaks louder than words • Listen to tone, tears, and body language, not just spoken sentences Practical Ways to “Be Appalled” • Permit yourself to feel unsettled rather than rushing to fix the moment • Acknowledge the injustice or tragedy without minimizing it • Express gentle verbal empathy: “This is hard,” “I grieve with you,” “Your pain matters” Practical Ways to “Put Your Hand Over Your Mouth” • Hold back theological lectures until invited • Avoid clichés (“Everything happens for a reason,” “At least…”) • Pray silently in the moment, asking God for wisdom before speaking • When words are necessary, keep them few, sincere, and anchored in Scripture Active Deeds that Flow from Compassionate Silence • Write a brief note or text of support rather than a long analysis • Provide meals, childcare, or help with errands • Sit quietly in the hospital room or living room, embodying Galatians 6:2 Reflecting Christ, the Perfect Compassionate Friend • Matthew 14:14 shows Jesus “had compassion… and healed their sick,” pairing feeling with action • John 11:35 reveals He first wept before calling Lazarus out, modeling presence and power together • Following Him means letting tears precede solutions and love motivate every deed Summary Snapshot Look intently, let the sorrow pierce, and keep the tongue in check. From that place of holy silence, God’s people rise to serve, comfort, and bear burdens—mirroring the compassion Job desired and the compassion Christ perfectly displays. |
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