In what ways can Job 13:6 guide us in resolving conflicts biblically? Text to Focus Our Hearts “Hear now my argument; listen to the pleas of my lips.” (Job 13:6) Why This Single Verse Matters in Conflict Job, wounded by false accusations, does not lash out. Instead, he asks for two simple courtesies—hearing and listening. Those same courtesies form the backbone of Christ-honoring conflict resolution today. Core Lessons for Peacemaking • Give space for honest explanation – Before offering rebuttal, invite the other person to speak fully (James 1:19). • Listen with intention, not interruption – “Let every one be quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19). • Value clarity over assumptions – Job lays out “my argument” so no one has to guess his motives (Proverbs 18:13). • Seek fairness, not victory – Job’s plea is for justice, mirroring God’s call to impartiality (Proverbs 24:23). • Keep words respectful – Even in pain Job addresses his friends with measured language; we are told, “Let your speech always be gracious” (Colossians 4:6). • Anchor the dialogue in truth before God – Job speaks as one under the Lord’s scrutiny (Job 13:10–11). Likewise, we remember every word is spoken before Him (Matthew 12:36). A Simple, Biblical Process Shaped by Job 13:6 1. Request a calm meeting: “Hear now my argument.” 2. Lay out the facts and feelings humbly. 3. Allow the other party to respond without interruption. 4. Weigh each argument alongside Scripture (Psalm 119:105). 5. If unresolved, bring in a wise believer or two (Matthew 18:16). 6. Close with mutual commitment to obey God’s Word moving forward (Ephesians 4:32). Scriptures That Echo Job’s Approach • Proverbs 15:1 – A gentle answer turns away wrath. • Matthew 18:15 – Go and show him his fault between you and him alone. • Ephesians 4:29 – Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths. • Romans 12:18 – If possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Living It Out This Week • When tension rises, pause and invite the other person to “tell me your side fully.” • Repeat back what you heard to prove you listened. • Measure your own words by whether they would stand before God’s courtroom, as Job envisioned. • Aim for restoration, not mere relief, trusting the Lord who “delights in mercy” (Micah 7:18). |
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