In what ways can Matthew 15:10 guide our conversations and interactions with others?

Listen and understand

“Jesus called the crowd to Him and said, ‘Listen and understand.’” (Matthew 15:10)

• Jesus begins with a command that sets the tone for every godly conversation: give full attention before responding.

• Because His words are literally true and authoritative, listening to them—and to others—becomes a sacred duty.

Attentive listening in practice

• Put away distractions and face the speaker (Proverbs 18:13).

• Let your ears lead, not your mouth—“Everyone must be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger” (James 1:19).

• Hear the whole matter so you can respond with grace and accuracy.

Seek understanding before speaking

• Ask clarifying questions to grasp intent; guessing breeds strife (Proverbs 15:28).

• Think through biblical principles involved; Scripture, not impulse, must shape the reply (Psalm 119:105).

• Reflect on the heart issues beneath words: “For the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart” (Matthew 12:34).

Speak to build up

• Choose words that impart grace: “Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only what is good for building up” (Ephesians 4:29).

• Season speech with kindness and truth (Colossians 4:6).

• Replace sarcasm or gossip with encouragement and correction spoken in love (Proverbs 15:1; Galatians 6:1).

Invite others into the conversation

• Jesus addressed the whole crowd, not a select few; imitate that openness by giving every person a voice (Philippians 2:3–4).

• Value differing backgrounds and experiences while holding firmly to truth (Acts 17:2–3).

Guard the heart that guides the tongue

• Monitor inner attitudes through prayer and Scripture meditation (Psalm 19:14).

• Confess sin quickly so bitterness or pride never fuels speech (1 John 1:9).

• Store up God’s Word so it overflows naturally in conversation (Psalm 119:11).

Walk away reflecting Christ

• Conversations marked by careful listening, thoughtful understanding, and edifying words showcase the Lord’s character (John 13:35).

• In a culture of impulsive talk, following Matthew 15:10 sets believers apart and directs every interaction toward the glory of God (1 Corinthians 10:31).