How can seeking counsel before decisions reflect biblical wisdom in our lives? Setting the Scene: Rehoboam’s Pause “Rehoboam answered, ‘Go away for three days and then return to me.’ So the people departed.” (1 Kings 12:5) Solomon’s son has just inherited the throne. Before responding to the nation’s plea for lighter burdens, he does something simple yet profound: he asks for time. That pause signals an intent to seek counsel. Why a Three-Day Delay Matters • A deliberate pause counters impulse, creating space for discernment. • Rehoboam signals humility—he does not pretend to have every answer on the spot. • Waiting acknowledges God’s sovereignty; haste often sidelines prayer and godly advice. The Pattern of Scripture: Counsel as Wisdom • Proverbs 11:14 — “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in abundance of counselors there is safety.” • Proverbs 15:22 — “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” • James 1:5 — “Now if any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given to him.” • Acts 13:2 — The church fasted and prayed before sending Barnabas and Saul, showing communal discernment. Seeking counsel is not optional seasoning; Scripture treats it as integral to wise living. Recognizing True Counsel • Measure advice against clear biblical principles (2 Timothy 3:16-17). • Prefer counselors who fear the Lord over those who merely echo our preferences (Psalm 1:1). • Value proven experience and godly character (Rehoboam’s elders had served Solomon faithfully). • Beware peer pressure masquerading as wisdom (Rehoboam’s peers urged harsher policies, leading to division). Practical Steps for Us Today 1. Pause before major choices—schedule time for prayer and reflection. 2. Gather insights from mature believers, pastors, and seasoned friends. 3. Compare every recommendation with Scripture; discard what contradicts it. 4. Consider the long-term impact, asking how the decision will affect faith, family, and witness. 5. Commit the final choice to God, trusting His guidance (Proverbs 3:5-6). A Lifestyle that Honors Wisdom By imitating Rehoboam’s initial instinct—pausing to seek counsel—while avoiding his later mistake of rejecting godly advice, we cultivate a life that consistently reflects biblical wisdom. Decisions made this way honor God, bless others, and spare us needless regret. |
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