What role does pride play in Rehoboam's response to the people's request? The Setting: A Nation at a Crossroads • Israel gathers at Shechem to confirm Solomon’s son, Rehoboam, as king (1 Kings 12:1). • Representatives ask him to lighten the heavy yoke Solomon had placed on them (vv. 3–4). • Rehoboam seeks two streams of counsel—first the elders, then the young men who grew up with him (vv. 6–11). Pride Surfaces in Rehoboam’s Reply (1 Kings 12:13) “The king answered the people harshly. He rejected the advice of the elders given him.” Rehoboam’s proud heart drives three key moves: 1. Harsh tone—He chooses severity over compassion, signaling self-importance. 2. Rejection of seasoned counsel—He devalues wisdom that does not magnify his own status. 3. Alignment with flattering peers—He surrounds himself with voices that reinforce his ego. Symptoms of a Proud Heart • Inflated self-view: “My little finger is thicker than my father’s waist” (v. 10). • Desire to assert power: “I will scourge you with scorpions” (v. 11). • Deafness to legitimate grievances: the people’s plea is dismissed rather than weighed. Scripture’s Broader Witness Against Pride • Proverbs 16:18—“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” • 2 Chronicles 12:14—Rehoboam “did evil because he did not set his heart to seek the LORD.” Pride kept him from humble pursuit of God. • James 4:6—“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” Rehoboam positions himself against God’s favor. Consequences Linked to Rehoboam’s Pride • Immediate division: Ten tribes revolt and crown Jeroboam (1 Kings 12:16–20). • Loss of legacy: Rehoboam rules a diminished kingdom of Judah and Benjamin. • Ongoing instability: Wars between the two kingdoms (1 Kings 14:30). Pride does not merely affect a leader’s reputation; it reshapes national destiny. Takeaways for Today • Listen to godly counsel even when it challenges personal comfort. • Measure authority by service, not by the ability to demand more. • Guard the heart: pride’s subtle rise can blind a believer to truth and fracture relationships. |