How does pride affect outcomes?
What does "give your place to this man" reveal about pride's consequences?

Scene at the Pharisee’s Table

Jesus is eating in the house of a ruler of the Pharisees on the Sabbath (Luke 14:1). Guests scramble for the best couches around the low table—status on full display. Noticing their maneuvering, Jesus crafts a parable of places, pivoting on the sobering line:

“ ‘Give this man your seat.’ Then, humiliated, you will have to take the lowest place.” (Luke 14:9)


The Sting in the Host’s Words

• “Give” is a command; the seat is not yours by right.

• “Your place” implies you thought it belonged to you.

• “This man” is unnamed, underscoring how easily pride can be displaced by someone you deem insignificant.

• The result: public, undeniable humiliation before all who watched you claim the seat.


Consequences of Pride on Display

• Instant reversal—what looked like honor becomes shame.

• Loss of influence—others now see presumptuous self-promotion.

• Wounded relationships—the host must correct you, and fellow guests remember the scene.

• Spiritual exposure—God allows hidden motives to surface (cf. 1 Samuel 16:7).

• Fulfillment of an iron law: “Pride goes before destruction” (Proverbs 16:18).


God’s Consistent Principle

• “For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and the one who humbles himself will be exalted.” (Luke 14:11)

• Reaffirmed in James 4:6 and 1 Peter 5:5—God actively resists the proud.

• Illustrated by Nebuchadnezzar (Daniel 4:30-33) and Herod Agrippa (Acts 12:21-23).

• Modeled oppositely by Christ: “He humbled Himself… therefore God exalted Him” (Philippians 2:8-9).


Living the Lesson Today

• Choose the lower seat—serve quietly and let God do the exalting.

• Measure success by faithfulness, not visibility.

• Celebrate others’ advancement; resist the reflex to compete.

• Keep short accounts with God—confess pride early (1 John 1:9).

• Trust the promise: humility attracts grace, pride invites a fall. (Luke 18:14)

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