How does pride block relationships?
How does pride hinder our relationship with God and others?

Setting the Scene

Mark 9:34: “But they kept silent, for on the way they had been arguing about who was the greatest.”


What Pride Looks Like

• Self-promotion—eager to be “the greatest”

• Comparison—measuring ourselves against others

• Concealment—silence when confronted, showing pride’s fear of exposure


Pride Puts Distance Between Us and God

Isaiah 57:15—God dwells with “the contrite and humble in spirit”

James 4:6—“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”

Psalm 10:4—Pride leaves “no room for God.”

Effects: hardened heart, prayerlessness, resistance to Scripture’s correction


Pride Fractures Relationships with Others

Philippians 2:3—commands humility over “selfish ambition”

Proverbs 13:10—“Where there is strife, there is pride.”

• 3 John 9—Diotrephes, who “loves to be first,” rejects fellow believers

Symptoms: competition, suspicion, irreconcilable conflicts


Jesus’ Cure: The Way Down Is Up

Mark 9:35: “If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all.”

John 13:14—Jesus washes feet, exemplifying servanthood

Matthew 23:12—humbling oneself leads to true exaltation


Cultivating Humility Daily

1. Yield plans and reputation to the Lord (Proverbs 3:5-6).

2. Serve in unnoticed tasks (Galatians 5:13).

3. Confess pride promptly (1 John 1:9).

4. Remember every gift is from God (1 Corinthians 4:7; James 1:17).

5. Speak to honor Christ and uplift others (Ephesians 4:29).


A Closing Picture

When pride bows, grace flows—drawing us closer to God and knitting our lives together in humble, Christ-like love.

Why were the disciples silent about their argument in Mark 9:34?
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